"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Losing my touch

saturos

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Since coming to this site like 4 months ago or whatever, i gained a lot of knowledge and improved my game, but the last few weeks i've been slipping...i just don't know whats going wrong or why. There was a period where i was much more confident with girls and better at talking to them, but now i'm just practically an AFC again...
I dunno what i'm asking here, its just...bleh
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You're over thinking things. Relax.

It's hard to lose your touch. It's easy to get so far into the "game" that you forget the reality of it, and when that happens, your game itself suffers. I'm willing to bet if you stop thinking so much and start acting more, you're touch will come back.
 

saturos

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Yea, most likely stuff like that is all it is...
Tomorrow is my last day of school before break, and i'd just like to end my first half (basically) of school on a high note, you know? Its just been a gradual decline though...
 

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Just don't put much pressure on yourself. If you happen to meet a girl tomorrow, talk it up, go for the number close. Girls are more willing to hand out digits than you think. Over break, rally together as many as your friends as you can and get together, do something fun, whatever it is you like to do. If it's something like the movies, or bowling, or anything that you can do well in a group setting, call up a girl to join you. It makes you look great for one, when a girl sees you in a social setting surrounded in friends, and two it makes you feel great, everyone loves to have a good time.
 
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