"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Losing my touch

saturos

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Since coming to this site like 4 months ago or whatever, i gained a lot of knowledge and improved my game, but the last few weeks i've been slipping...i just don't know whats going wrong or why. There was a period where i was much more confident with girls and better at talking to them, but now i'm just practically an AFC again...
I dunno what i'm asking here, its just...bleh
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You're over thinking things. Relax.

It's hard to lose your touch. It's easy to get so far into the "game" that you forget the reality of it, and when that happens, your game itself suffers. I'm willing to bet if you stop thinking so much and start acting more, you're touch will come back.
 

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Yea, most likely stuff like that is all it is...
Tomorrow is my last day of school before break, and i'd just like to end my first half (basically) of school on a high note, you know? Its just been a gradual decline though...
 

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Just don't put much pressure on yourself. If you happen to meet a girl tomorrow, talk it up, go for the number close. Girls are more willing to hand out digits than you think. Over break, rally together as many as your friends as you can and get together, do something fun, whatever it is you like to do. If it's something like the movies, or bowling, or anything that you can do well in a group setting, call up a girl to join you. It makes you look great for one, when a girl sees you in a social setting surrounded in friends, and two it makes you feel great, everyone loves to have a good time.
 
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