"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Losing my touch

saturos

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Since coming to this site like 4 months ago or whatever, i gained a lot of knowledge and improved my game, but the last few weeks i've been slipping...i just don't know whats going wrong or why. There was a period where i was much more confident with girls and better at talking to them, but now i'm just practically an AFC again...
I dunno what i'm asking here, its just...bleh
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You're over thinking things. Relax.

It's hard to lose your touch. It's easy to get so far into the "game" that you forget the reality of it, and when that happens, your game itself suffers. I'm willing to bet if you stop thinking so much and start acting more, you're touch will come back.
 

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Yea, most likely stuff like that is all it is...
Tomorrow is my last day of school before break, and i'd just like to end my first half (basically) of school on a high note, you know? Its just been a gradual decline though...
 

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Just don't put much pressure on yourself. If you happen to meet a girl tomorrow, talk it up, go for the number close. Girls are more willing to hand out digits than you think. Over break, rally together as many as your friends as you can and get together, do something fun, whatever it is you like to do. If it's something like the movies, or bowling, or anything that you can do well in a group setting, call up a girl to join you. It makes you look great for one, when a girl sees you in a social setting surrounded in friends, and two it makes you feel great, everyone loves to have a good time.
 
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