"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Losing interest in her (them)....

NewMan

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So you meet a chickie - she a hottie - you want to get to know her better and she's interested in you...

You go out - have fun - and you want to hit that poon - so you give her the DJ treatment - you call her sparingly, you make dates fun and interesting - action - you hit her with cokcy and funny and kino...... and she laps it up.


You end up fvcking her - and you continue to see her whilst banging her...

Then a strange thing happens -

About 2 months into it, you start to feel different... this chick doesn't hold your interest anymore - your eyes start to wonder - when she calls you no longer want to speak to her - you sometimes don't want to go out on dates with her anymore... and in fact, you hope you can end it all quickly, or that she'll find someone else - or that she'll get the message......


In short - you lose interest.....


Sound familiar?


I've been doing a lot of this lately...

No chick seems to hold my attention - and I'm bored with them after a couple months....

What gives?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sayajin_Prince

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maybe you know you have her in your hands and she is not a challenge anymore. just next her and proceed with your life with no remorse cuz' women dont have remorses when do that to us either.
 

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Sayajin Prince is exactly right. You love the CHASE and not the capture. You love working the magic, but once the trick works...you look for a fresh audience to work the charm on.

In your heart of hearts you aren't looking for a LTR, you're having too much fun with the game. This is perfectly fine! Nothing wrong with this. But to spare your poor girlfriend the confusion of hot then cold, tell her that you aren't looking for a LTR. Then she won't be so shattered when you vanish from the stage.:cool:
 

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Wow, that's a nice analogy WaterTiger, it's exactly how I feel at the moment. :) It just gets so boring when there's no more challenge.
 

CLOONEY

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Originally posted by WaterTiger
Sayajin Prince is exactly right. You love the CHASE and not the capture. You love working the magic, but once the trick works...you look for a fresh audience to work the charm on.

In your heart of hearts you aren't looking for a LTR, you're having too much fun with the game. This is perfectly fine! Nothing wrong with this. But to spare your poor girlfriend the confusion of hot then cold, tell her that you aren't looking for a LTR. Then she won't be so shattered when you vanish from the stage.:cool:
Yeah or get rid of her, see her with another guy, and then gain that interest :D Funny how the game works!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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