"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Losing interest in her (them)....

NewMan

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So you meet a chickie - she a hottie - you want to get to know her better and she's interested in you...

You go out - have fun - and you want to hit that poon - so you give her the DJ treatment - you call her sparingly, you make dates fun and interesting - action - you hit her with cokcy and funny and kino...... and she laps it up.


You end up fvcking her - and you continue to see her whilst banging her...

Then a strange thing happens -

About 2 months into it, you start to feel different... this chick doesn't hold your interest anymore - your eyes start to wonder - when she calls you no longer want to speak to her - you sometimes don't want to go out on dates with her anymore... and in fact, you hope you can end it all quickly, or that she'll find someone else - or that she'll get the message......


In short - you lose interest.....


Sound familiar?


I've been doing a lot of this lately...

No chick seems to hold my attention - and I'm bored with them after a couple months....

What gives?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sayajin_Prince

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maybe you know you have her in your hands and she is not a challenge anymore. just next her and proceed with your life with no remorse cuz' women dont have remorses when do that to us either.
 

WaterTiger

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Sayajin Prince is exactly right. You love the CHASE and not the capture. You love working the magic, but once the trick works...you look for a fresh audience to work the charm on.

In your heart of hearts you aren't looking for a LTR, you're having too much fun with the game. This is perfectly fine! Nothing wrong with this. But to spare your poor girlfriend the confusion of hot then cold, tell her that you aren't looking for a LTR. Then she won't be so shattered when you vanish from the stage.:cool:
 

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Wow, that's a nice analogy WaterTiger, it's exactly how I feel at the moment. :) It just gets so boring when there's no more challenge.
 

CLOONEY

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Originally posted by WaterTiger
Sayajin Prince is exactly right. You love the CHASE and not the capture. You love working the magic, but once the trick works...you look for a fresh audience to work the charm on.

In your heart of hearts you aren't looking for a LTR, you're having too much fun with the game. This is perfectly fine! Nothing wrong with this. But to spare your poor girlfriend the confusion of hot then cold, tell her that you aren't looking for a LTR. Then she won't be so shattered when you vanish from the stage.:cool:
Yeah or get rid of her, see her with another guy, and then gain that interest :D Funny how the game works!!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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