"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Losing interest in her (them)....

NewMan

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So you meet a chickie - she a hottie - you want to get to know her better and she's interested in you...

You go out - have fun - and you want to hit that poon - so you give her the DJ treatment - you call her sparingly, you make dates fun and interesting - action - you hit her with cokcy and funny and kino...... and she laps it up.


You end up fvcking her - and you continue to see her whilst banging her...

Then a strange thing happens -

About 2 months into it, you start to feel different... this chick doesn't hold your interest anymore - your eyes start to wonder - when she calls you no longer want to speak to her - you sometimes don't want to go out on dates with her anymore... and in fact, you hope you can end it all quickly, or that she'll find someone else - or that she'll get the message......


In short - you lose interest.....


Sound familiar?


I've been doing a lot of this lately...

No chick seems to hold my attention - and I'm bored with them after a couple months....

What gives?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Sayajin_Prince

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maybe you know you have her in your hands and she is not a challenge anymore. just next her and proceed with your life with no remorse cuz' women dont have remorses when do that to us either.
 

WaterTiger

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Sayajin Prince is exactly right. You love the CHASE and not the capture. You love working the magic, but once the trick works...you look for a fresh audience to work the charm on.

In your heart of hearts you aren't looking for a LTR, you're having too much fun with the game. This is perfectly fine! Nothing wrong with this. But to spare your poor girlfriend the confusion of hot then cold, tell her that you aren't looking for a LTR. Then she won't be so shattered when you vanish from the stage.:cool:
 

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Wow, that's a nice analogy WaterTiger, it's exactly how I feel at the moment. :) It just gets so boring when there's no more challenge.
 

CLOONEY

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Originally posted by WaterTiger
Sayajin Prince is exactly right. You love the CHASE and not the capture. You love working the magic, but once the trick works...you look for a fresh audience to work the charm on.

In your heart of hearts you aren't looking for a LTR, you're having too much fun with the game. This is perfectly fine! Nothing wrong with this. But to spare your poor girlfriend the confusion of hot then cold, tell her that you aren't looking for a LTR. Then she won't be so shattered when you vanish from the stage.:cool:
Yeah or get rid of her, see her with another guy, and then gain that interest :D Funny how the game works!!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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