"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Losing hair. Shave?

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Hey guys,
For the past 2 months I noticed that my front hair is thinning, most likely due to the post-breakup stress, since it started happening really fast, honestly I always had gorgeous hair.

The dermatologist prescribed me with medication but I don't want to use it.

Should I just shave it off?

Here's a pic:
http://i57.tinypic.com/mj47dk.jpg
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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CerwinVegaFan said:
Hey guys,
For the past 2 months I noticed that my front hair is thinning, most likely due to the post-breakup stress, since it started happening really fast, honestly I always had gorgeous hair.

The dermatologist prescribed me with medication but I don't want to use it.

Should I just shave it off?

Here's a pic:
http://i57.tinypic.com/mj47dk.jpg
DONT use the medication. I guess you got something to block DHT?
I WILL **** with your hormones and most likely you will get some sort of depression and if you stop using it, the hair loss will be greater than before.

Youve got the "perfect" hair for a Jason Statham haircut.
 

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DONT use the medication. I guess you got something to block DHT?
I WILL **** with your hormones and most likely you will get some sort of depression and if you stop using it, the hair loss will be greater than before.

Youve got the "perfect" hair for a Jason Statham haircut.
 

Cerwin Vega

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What's a Jason Statham haircut? Seems like he shaves his head/trims it to 1-2mm.
 

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That really doesn't look like much. If it just progressively gets worse then maybe, but I wouldn't right now. Some thinning isn't the worst. The worst is when there's an actual bald spot.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Im in a similar situation, best option I came up with is let them grow untill they are long enough to mess them up, then get a volumizing shampoo and mess them up.

Just keep the sides shorter than the top.

Something like this http://www.apnimarzi.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/jude-law-split.jpg

Only problem is that you better check it out everytime something like strong wind or changing t-shirt happens, either that or cut them short like statham.
 

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There's a light bald spot on the left, and the picture looks kinda better than what it really is.

From a distance you can't really notice it but when you look from above or up close, it's really visible.

My brother is also balding but he's already married and 33 years old, 13 years older than me, argh.

I think I should just shave the whole thing off and be bald for the rest of my life. Hell, look at Neil Strauss.
 

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Shaved the whole thing off. Feels a lot better.
Don't know if chicks will dig it though.
 
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Shave it with a 1 guard and rock some beard stubble. Make sure you get some sun on it.
 

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CerwinVegaFan said:
Shaved the whole thing off. Feels a lot better.
Don't know if chicks will dig it though.
Do you really think chicks care how pretty you look? They see you the way you see yourself.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Shaved-headed men are generally perceived as less attractive than full-hair headed men. However, when it comes to a bald man approaching a woman, there's something unique in the sense of confidence - when a man shaves his head he's doing it by choice - he has nothing to hide and is comfortable with being "naked".

This aside, some men are better looking NON-shaved even if they're losing a bit of hair. At the moment, I'd prefer to have my "old" full-hair head back, but there's nothing (natural) that I can do but hope that the hair loss is only temporary, caused by stressed and will grow back in half a year or so (according to a few medical articles I read).
 

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I shaved my head for 16 years. I've had my hair longer for the last 5.
I actually just found out I am balding in the back of my head for the past year. Who knows how long that thing has been there...

Know what the difference has been in those 3 different stages?

Nothing. Because I own it and I have self-confidence regardless of my hairstyle. If you walk up to a woman with the insecurity because of your "hair", she will notice that you aren't fully confident.

You had to shave it? Fine. Own what you have right now instead of being worried about what you don't have.
 

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Absolutely. I'm not in any way devastated or pissed as some people on the net are.
 

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A lot of guys will find if they work out or are on gear that unless they do something to wash the DHT out of their hair, they will start losing it a lot faster than normal...

Bodybuilding Shampoo works great, wish I had known about this 3 years ago, I;d have a lot more hair now...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I would shave it with a 1 on the clipper settings and grow a 2 day beard and you will be good to go.
 

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marmel75 said:
A lot of guys will find if they work out or are on gear that unless they do something to wash the DHT out of their hair, they will start losing it a lot faster than normal...

Bodybuilding Shampoo works great, wish I had known about this 3 years ago, I;d have a lot more hair now...
I'm sorry my friend but that is just a bunch of baloney.
 

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CerwinVegaFan said:
I'm sorry my friend but that is just a bunch of baloney.
From my personal experience it isn't. Hair loss greatly increased over the last 3 year's I've been working out hard, started running high doses of test and anavar and even with that the shampoo greatly lessened hair loss, to the point I believe I have more hair now than when I started the cycle which would otherwise be impossible, since it would have greatly accelerated hair loss without it...

DHT is the cause of hair loss in men, that's pretty well known, washing the DHT off the follicle helps tremendously...

Don't take my word, its got a 9/10 rating on bodybuilding.com with hundreds if not thousands of reviews
 
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