"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Losing Girls to God

Naughty Ninja

Banned
Joined
Apr 9, 2010
Messages
2,419
Reaction score
98
Location
Banned
sh8716 said:
So this has happened to me twice in a row now, and I'm not quite sure why it happens or how I can get around or prevent it. I'll talk to a girl, we'll make a really good connection and I'll get her number and we'll text back and forth for a bit. Eventually I'll ask her if she wants to hang out or go see a movie or something and she'll go "Well I'm not looking for a boyfriend right now, I'm trying to be a better person and get closer to God." What does this mean!?!?!? I'm assuming it's something I'm doing wrong but I don't know. Thanks for your help!!

Like another poster said and I'd made a point about in another thread: Chicks who "suddenly found God" have some serious skeletons in their closets/had several "bones" in their "closet" and or other issues.

If the chick found you truly attractive and she was interested enough she'd have invited you to learn about "Jesus".

Those chicks are a waste of time regardless. They'll use "God" as a tool to try to manipulate people and as a mask to hide their flaws/character defects/ issues. Like switching one addiction for another.

You could have possibly tried to just go with the "curious about her new finding of God" and seen if you could work it that way with her and play the "devil" role at times to feel her out...but in the end those chicks have serious issues and it's not worth it playing with a lunatic who wears religion on their sleeve.

Both of those chicks who found "God" will be saying his name in vain in the future by the same kind(s) of "a-holes" who caused them to find "God" in the first place.

If you hear from them again you COULD just go balls out and tell them they need to come over to your place so you can both play "Confession booth" and "confess" everything to each other till it all comes out and you're both "at peace". Basically telling them to cut the crap, "Sh1t or get off the pot".
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

SamTheHobit

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 10, 2011
Messages
1,514
Reaction score
95
Location
South Africa
Bro you got rejected!

Good thing there's 3.5 billion other girls.
 

sh8716

Don Juan
Joined
May 31, 2012
Messages
26
Reaction score
0
So would it be a good idea to remove her from my phone, facebook etc? Or better to just wait a while (weeks) and text her like it never happened? Option 2 seems a bit AFC to me but I don't know.
 

DonDiscovery

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 1, 2012
Messages
43
Reaction score
0
Location
UK
either (a) she is a slut

or

(b) (more likely) she is using a lame-ass rejection
 

Purefilth

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 13, 2012
Messages
2,749
Reaction score
73
Location
BEAST MODE [ON]
I had one turn to god as an excuse before. Nexted her and banged two other girls that same week.

Aah to be 18 again! :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

VladPatton

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 26, 2012
Messages
3,246
Reaction score
232
Location
NYC
Tell her you'd rather laugh with the sinners than cry with the saints! lol
 

sh8716

Don Juan
Joined
May 31, 2012
Messages
26
Reaction score
0
So would it be a good idea to remove her from my phone, facebook etc? Or better to just wait a while (weeks) and text her like it never happened?
 
Top