"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Losing Girls to God

Naughty Ninja

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sh8716 said:
So this has happened to me twice in a row now, and I'm not quite sure why it happens or how I can get around or prevent it. I'll talk to a girl, we'll make a really good connection and I'll get her number and we'll text back and forth for a bit. Eventually I'll ask her if she wants to hang out or go see a movie or something and she'll go "Well I'm not looking for a boyfriend right now, I'm trying to be a better person and get closer to God." What does this mean!?!?!? I'm assuming it's something I'm doing wrong but I don't know. Thanks for your help!!

Like another poster said and I'd made a point about in another thread: Chicks who "suddenly found God" have some serious skeletons in their closets/had several "bones" in their "closet" and or other issues.

If the chick found you truly attractive and she was interested enough she'd have invited you to learn about "Jesus".

Those chicks are a waste of time regardless. They'll use "God" as a tool to try to manipulate people and as a mask to hide their flaws/character defects/ issues. Like switching one addiction for another.

You could have possibly tried to just go with the "curious about her new finding of God" and seen if you could work it that way with her and play the "devil" role at times to feel her out...but in the end those chicks have serious issues and it's not worth it playing with a lunatic who wears religion on their sleeve.

Both of those chicks who found "God" will be saying his name in vain in the future by the same kind(s) of "a-holes" who caused them to find "God" in the first place.

If you hear from them again you COULD just go balls out and tell them they need to come over to your place so you can both play "Confession booth" and "confess" everything to each other till it all comes out and you're both "at peace". Basically telling them to cut the crap, "Sh1t or get off the pot".
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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SamTheHobit

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Bro you got rejected!

Good thing there's 3.5 billion other girls.
 

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So would it be a good idea to remove her from my phone, facebook etc? Or better to just wait a while (weeks) and text her like it never happened? Option 2 seems a bit AFC to me but I don't know.
 

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either (a) she is a slut

or

(b) (more likely) she is using a lame-ass rejection
 

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I had one turn to god as an excuse before. Nexted her and banged two other girls that same week.

Aah to be 18 again! :)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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VladPatton

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Tell her you'd rather laugh with the sinners than cry with the saints! lol
 

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So would it be a good idea to remove her from my phone, facebook etc? Or better to just wait a while (weeks) and text her like it never happened?
 
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