"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Losing Girls to God

Naughty Ninja

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sh8716 said:
So this has happened to me twice in a row now, and I'm not quite sure why it happens or how I can get around or prevent it. I'll talk to a girl, we'll make a really good connection and I'll get her number and we'll text back and forth for a bit. Eventually I'll ask her if she wants to hang out or go see a movie or something and she'll go "Well I'm not looking for a boyfriend right now, I'm trying to be a better person and get closer to God." What does this mean!?!?!? I'm assuming it's something I'm doing wrong but I don't know. Thanks for your help!!

Like another poster said and I'd made a point about in another thread: Chicks who "suddenly found God" have some serious skeletons in their closets/had several "bones" in their "closet" and or other issues.

If the chick found you truly attractive and she was interested enough she'd have invited you to learn about "Jesus".

Those chicks are a waste of time regardless. They'll use "God" as a tool to try to manipulate people and as a mask to hide their flaws/character defects/ issues. Like switching one addiction for another.

You could have possibly tried to just go with the "curious about her new finding of God" and seen if you could work it that way with her and play the "devil" role at times to feel her out...but in the end those chicks have serious issues and it's not worth it playing with a lunatic who wears religion on their sleeve.

Both of those chicks who found "God" will be saying his name in vain in the future by the same kind(s) of "a-holes" who caused them to find "God" in the first place.

If you hear from them again you COULD just go balls out and tell them they need to come over to your place so you can both play "Confession booth" and "confess" everything to each other till it all comes out and you're both "at peace". Basically telling them to cut the crap, "Sh1t or get off the pot".
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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SamTheHobit

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Bro you got rejected!

Good thing there's 3.5 billion other girls.
 

sh8716

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So would it be a good idea to remove her from my phone, facebook etc? Or better to just wait a while (weeks) and text her like it never happened? Option 2 seems a bit AFC to me but I don't know.
 

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either (a) she is a slut

or

(b) (more likely) she is using a lame-ass rejection
 

Purefilth

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I had one turn to god as an excuse before. Nexted her and banged two other girls that same week.

Aah to be 18 again! :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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VladPatton

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Tell her you'd rather laugh with the sinners than cry with the saints! lol
 

sh8716

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So would it be a good idea to remove her from my phone, facebook etc? Or better to just wait a while (weeks) and text her like it never happened?
 
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