“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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God I thought I'd never ever be making a thread like this but yea short story was making out with a girl in a closed lecture hall. Well I had her naked and all she had on was this blanket I always have with me (gotta be ready at all times at uni right LOL).

And well I couldnt get it up for long aye, mutha fu(ker would go limp too quick, now I did train 3 days straight and didnt have much sleep but it shouldnt have affected me that much (should it have ??).

I know I dont have any problems normally but umm could it be due to having too much sex or something, any help would be appreciated.

Also any tips on how to keep it up when your really really tired would help. I feel like such a friggen loser man :(
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Dammmmmmmmmn! I'm 44 years old and don't have this problem --- you are only 22 years old and are already in for a world of pain!!!!

Take Viagra - but be careful - it makes you go blind!!!!! :(
 

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The thing is I nailed her last week and went for ages, is it possible to like over use your fella, thats what I'm scared of aye, I was totally turned on yet totally hammered from training, could it be performance anxiety ?

I are her out cause I couldnt do anything else and had phone sex with her after a 3 hour nap, was rock hard then but yea I'm like scared now aye.
 
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I ate her out cause I couldnt do anything else and had phone sex with her after a 3 hour nap, was rock hard then but yea I'm like scared now aye.
Damn, you ate a diseased stank hole - you bastards are desperate and have something to prove, don't you -- never eat a hors tw@t - it just ain't natural or clean!!!! You are trying to make-up for your impotence by using your mouth???? It still doesn't help your situation!!!! Quit eating stank-hos holes!!!
 

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that could depend on if your still winking your wank. sometimes f@cking your hand causes you to apply alot of friction to your wick and when it's time for the real thing it might be not enough friction causing you to lose your hard-on.

working out at the gym sometimes cause the same problem. you may be working out to hard for your body. i noticed that after an hour of cardio and my woman gets frisky on me it takes a bit for it to stand at attention. some sex positions also could be the problem for your loss of erection. sometimes when my women does some kind of kinky new move it just doesn't feel that great and she starts going soft. sometimes i noticed when i get alot of beers into me my d@ck stays rock solid for hours....don't ask me why
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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insanity said:
...sometimes i noticed when i get alot of beers into me my d@ck stays rock solid for hours....don't ask me why
I know why! It is because your penis is an alcoholic!!! :rolleyes:
 

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if you dont use it you lose it bro, or in this case, if you use it, you still lose it
 

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Man, *don't* worry about it.

And well I couldnt get it up for long aye, mutha fu(ker would go limp too quick, now I did train 3 days straight and didnt have much sleep but it shouldnt have affected me that much (should it have ??).
You'd be surprised bud. On new year's day, I was totally FVCKED, hungover and lethargic from getting *ridiculously* drunk the previous night. My girlfriend came round, and we shagged, but I knew from the beginning that I had *NO* chance of cvmming. I had to change my condom because i was going soft and it was rolling off.

So yeah, being tired can make a lot of difference. I've experienced it quite a lot of times.

Also, how often do you whack one out? I find that whacking one off the day before makes me last ages, and to be honest, although I can be horny before having sex the next day, my drive is still lowered.

cheers,
-shaun
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Met her again today and nailed her, I think I'm back to normal the paranoia is going away yaya. I think it was due to being too tired or something but bah its gone for now.

BTW I like eating girls out its my speciality, as long as they dont stink down there are clean shaven and smell nice I'm good to go.
 

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These threads are becoming almost a daily thing. We need some standard info on performance anxiety to give to people in these situations.
 

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i got opposite i could be doing something normal and all of a sudden get a har on FOR LITERALLY NO REASON and its hard to get rid of it
its not as if im thinking about fantasies or anything i just get hard for no reason whatsoever is that normal
 
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