"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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God I thought I'd never ever be making a thread like this but yea short story was making out with a girl in a closed lecture hall. Well I had her naked and all she had on was this blanket I always have with me (gotta be ready at all times at uni right LOL).

And well I couldnt get it up for long aye, mutha fu(ker would go limp too quick, now I did train 3 days straight and didnt have much sleep but it shouldnt have affected me that much (should it have ??).

I know I dont have any problems normally but umm could it be due to having too much sex or something, any help would be appreciated.

Also any tips on how to keep it up when your really really tired would help. I feel like such a friggen loser man :(
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dammmmmmmmmn! I'm 44 years old and don't have this problem --- you are only 22 years old and are already in for a world of pain!!!!

Take Viagra - but be careful - it makes you go blind!!!!! :(
 

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The thing is I nailed her last week and went for ages, is it possible to like over use your fella, thats what I'm scared of aye, I was totally turned on yet totally hammered from training, could it be performance anxiety ?

I are her out cause I couldnt do anything else and had phone sex with her after a 3 hour nap, was rock hard then but yea I'm like scared now aye.
 
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typical said:
I ate her out cause I couldnt do anything else and had phone sex with her after a 3 hour nap, was rock hard then but yea I'm like scared now aye.
Damn, you ate a diseased stank hole - you bastards are desperate and have something to prove, don't you -- never eat a hors tw@t - it just ain't natural or clean!!!! You are trying to make-up for your impotence by using your mouth???? It still doesn't help your situation!!!! Quit eating stank-hos holes!!!
 

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that could depend on if your still winking your wank. sometimes f@cking your hand causes you to apply alot of friction to your wick and when it's time for the real thing it might be not enough friction causing you to lose your hard-on.

working out at the gym sometimes cause the same problem. you may be working out to hard for your body. i noticed that after an hour of cardio and my woman gets frisky on me it takes a bit for it to stand at attention. some sex positions also could be the problem for your loss of erection. sometimes when my women does some kind of kinky new move it just doesn't feel that great and she starts going soft. sometimes i noticed when i get alot of beers into me my d@ck stays rock solid for hours....don't ask me why
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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insanity said:
...sometimes i noticed when i get alot of beers into me my d@ck stays rock solid for hours....don't ask me why
I know why! It is because your penis is an alcoholic!!! :rolleyes:
 

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if you dont use it you lose it bro, or in this case, if you use it, you still lose it
 

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Man, *don't* worry about it.

And well I couldnt get it up for long aye, mutha fu(ker would go limp too quick, now I did train 3 days straight and didnt have much sleep but it shouldnt have affected me that much (should it have ??).
You'd be surprised bud. On new year's day, I was totally FVCKED, hungover and lethargic from getting *ridiculously* drunk the previous night. My girlfriend came round, and we shagged, but I knew from the beginning that I had *NO* chance of cvmming. I had to change my condom because i was going soft and it was rolling off.

So yeah, being tired can make a lot of difference. I've experienced it quite a lot of times.

Also, how often do you whack one out? I find that whacking one off the day before makes me last ages, and to be honest, although I can be horny before having sex the next day, my drive is still lowered.

cheers,
-shaun
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Met her again today and nailed her, I think I'm back to normal the paranoia is going away yaya. I think it was due to being too tired or something but bah its gone for now.

BTW I like eating girls out its my speciality, as long as they dont stink down there are clean shaven and smell nice I'm good to go.
 

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These threads are becoming almost a daily thing. We need some standard info on performance anxiety to give to people in these situations.
 

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i got opposite i could be doing something normal and all of a sudden get a har on FOR LITERALLY NO REASON and its hard to get rid of it
its not as if im thinking about fantasies or anything i just get hard for no reason whatsoever is that normal
 
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