wifehunter
Master Don Juan
It's PUA crap. Chicks will escalate if we let them. Better to busy yourself with screening before that happens.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Losing a girl's interest after kissing her on the first date/meet
- Thread starter Reyaj
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
R.U.G.
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Escalate with touching, not shoving your tongue into some woman's mouth when she doesn't want it. You start to caress her thighs, small of her back while walking, arms, neck. When you go into for a kiss, test the waters.. See if her face meets you half way. If not, go for a hug and call it a night. However, I still believe it's best to go for a kiss on the second date. Builds tension and frustration in her head which can actually building favor for you as she's thinking either A, she wasn't good enough. B, he's not interested. C, he has other options.
greatsnake
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Escalate, escalate ... that’s the only way you’ll get the message accross that you’re interested, unless you want to end in the friendzone
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
it's an illusion...just letting her know in one instance is fine. No need to go overboard.