"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Losing a girl's interest after kissing her on the first date/meet

wifehunter

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Someone needs to clarify this for me... All over the site and forum, its taught that you need to escalate, escalate, escalate or am I missing something here....?
It's PUA crap. Chicks will escalate if we let them. Better to busy yourself with screening before that happens.
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Someone needs to clarify this for me... All over the site and forum, its taught that you need to escalate, escalate, escalate or am I missing something here....?
Escalate with touching, not shoving your tongue into some woman's mouth when she doesn't want it. You start to caress her thighs, small of her back while walking, arms, neck. When you go into for a kiss, test the waters.. See if her face meets you half way. If not, go for a hug and call it a night. However, I still believe it's best to go for a kiss on the second date. Builds tension and frustration in her head which can actually building favor for you as she's thinking either A, she wasn't good enough. B, he's not interested. C, he has other options.
 

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Escalate, escalate ... that’s the only way you’ll get the message accross that you’re interested, unless you want to end in the friendzone
 

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Escalate, escalate ... that’s the only way you’ll get the message accross that you’re interested, unless you want to end in the friendzone
it's an illusion...just letting her know in one instance is fine. No need to go overboard.
 
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