wifehunter
Master Don Juan
It's PUA crap. Chicks will escalate if we let them. Better to busy yourself with screening before that happens.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Losing a girl's interest after kissing her on the first date/meet
- Thread starter Reyaj
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
R.U.G.
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Escalate with touching, not shoving your tongue into some woman's mouth when she doesn't want it. You start to caress her thighs, small of her back while walking, arms, neck. When you go into for a kiss, test the waters.. See if her face meets you half way. If not, go for a hug and call it a night. However, I still believe it's best to go for a kiss on the second date. Builds tension and frustration in her head which can actually building favor for you as she's thinking either A, she wasn't good enough. B, he's not interested. C, he has other options.
greatsnake
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Escalate, escalate ... that’s the only way you’ll get the message accross that you’re interested, unless you want to end in the friendzone
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
it's an illusion...just letting her know in one instance is fine. No need to go overboard.