wifehunter
Master Don Juan
It's PUA crap. Chicks will escalate if we let them. Better to busy yourself with screening before that happens.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Losing a girl's interest after kissing her on the first date/meet
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
R.U.G.
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Escalate with touching, not shoving your tongue into some woman's mouth when she doesn't want it. You start to caress her thighs, small of her back while walking, arms, neck. When you go into for a kiss, test the waters.. See if her face meets you half way. If not, go for a hug and call it a night. However, I still believe it's best to go for a kiss on the second date. Builds tension and frustration in her head which can actually building favor for you as she's thinking either A, she wasn't good enough. B, he's not interested. C, he has other options.
greatsnake
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Escalate, escalate ... that’s the only way you’ll get the message accross that you’re interested, unless you want to end in the friendzone
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
it's an illusion...just letting her know in one instance is fine. No need to go overboard.