“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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lose body fat but gain muscle at same time

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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donjuanjovi

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Take steroids.
 

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Eat lots of protein, eat complex carbs at breakfast/post workout (maybe some simple post workout)

Good cardio
Lots of lifting
Get your healthy fats



Summarized it alllll for ya. :) I think...???
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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the best way i have reduced my bodyfat and increased muscle is sprinting on the treadmill then lifting as heavy as possible, usually about 14.5km/h for 10-15 mins (i play soccer aswell so need to keep v.fit), it can be done as im living proof of it :)

i might be mistaken here but endurance on the treadmill (i.e slow jog for a long time) is a big no-no!
 

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Losing bodyfat WHILE putting on muscle mass is pretty difficult. It is known as body recompositioning. The only way to quantify it is to take some before pics and to maintain your weight while becoming shredded. That way you know you lost fat and gained mass. Note that between 12-18% BF you look the same. As you dip below 12% you may lose weight, but you'll actually LOOK bigger because of muscle definition.

Still, it's a very meticulous process. Reason being is that you primarily lose fat (or muscle) on a calorie deficit, and gain muscle (or fat) on a calorie surplus. And you can't have both at the same time, but there is a workaround. Most people will maintain current mass and lose BF (maybe even gain some strength) and THINK they're gaining muscle. Again the only way to be sure is to look in the mirror and on the scale.

Diet of course is a no brainer. Lots of protein, moderate intake of complex carbs, lower fat intake.

IMO it's much easier to go on (clean) bulking and cutting phases, at least in the beginning. Now once you get to a BF percentage you're happy with (for most people 10% or below), you can then slowly start gaining mass while maintaining your current BF.
 

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md3sign said:
Reason being is that you primarily lose fat (or muscle) on a calorie deficit, and gain muscle (or fat) on a calorie surplus.
This isn't strictly true, even in a calorie deficit you can gain muscle if protein intake is sufficient (many precontest bodybuilders can still gain muscle going into a show, natural or enhanced) and the right demands are being placed on the body (growth-inducing training). Likewise you can lose fat while being in a surplus. It's all to do with nutrient timing and partitioning.

However for the most part you're right since technically, if you do cardio on waking (with a shot of whey or whatever you feel is necessary to avoid catabolism) you'll be in a deficit for that period of time and be burning fat. Then from breakfast onwards you eat a surplus which packs on the pounds. (there will also still be some metabolic 'afterburn' from the morning cardio which will enable you to keep burning fat even after your first 1-2 meals of the day).

For me THIS is easier to do rather than do the whole bulk/cut thing, since it allows me to train and eat how I want all year round (and I eat a lot of junk while being anything but ectomorphic). Just by modifying my diet a tiny bit or adding a tiny bit more cardio I can keep or reduce bodyfat and not have it interfere with strength or size gains OR make me feel like I'm depriving myself of foods I like (this doesn't mean I have a cheat day six days out of seven of course).

Of course this is not the optimal way to gain muscle OR lose fat but it's a healthy in between which is more maintainable and much easier on the body.
 

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I agree. Overall it is possible, just difficult. And for skinny beginners a solid bulk cycle is preferable. Bulking/cutting isn't something I would recommend long term because like you said it's hard on the body, but an initial cycle or two when you first start serious training is a good idea.

I bulked up a lot and put on more fat than I wanted to, so now I'm slowing down a bit and concentrating slowly putting on muscle mass while maintaining my BF. Come spring I'll cut for the summer and then slowly continue packing on mass (at that point ~1-2lbs/month) as a long term solution.
 

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md3sign said:
I agree. Overall it is possible, just difficult. And for skinny beginners a solid bulk cycle is preferable. Bulking/cutting isn't something I would recommend long term because like you said it's hard on the body, but an initial cycle or two when you first start serious training is a good idea.

I bulked up a lot and put on more fat than I wanted to, so now I'm slowing down a bit and concentrating slowly putting on muscle mass while maintaining my BF. Come spring I'll cut for the summer and then slowly continue packing on mass (at that point ~1-2lbs/month) as a long term solution.
Good plan. Congrats on your gains. :) You appear to have a good knowledge base and you're thinking longterm, which is also essential if you're to have a physique which will turn heads. Also you eat beef, and for this I salute you.

Personally I'd have anyone under 200lbs just eat their asses off (unless they're already too fat) and not worry about keeping abs or anything, they can clean up their diets for the long haul as you say with already a solid size and strength base behind them.. the extra muscle and their already fast metabolisms will help them lean out as they still put on size.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dj ben2 said:
yea i do have a LOT to learn but im still young =D
I was referring to donjuanjovi's implication that a body recomposition (lose fat, gain muscle simultaneously) was only possible when using steroids.
 

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Catabolic:
The metabolic breakdown of complex molecules into simpler ones, often resulting in a release of energy.
It breaks stuff down for fuel. :)
 

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From a BB/PL perspective, catabolism = breakdown of muscle tissue, anabolism = build up of muscle tissue. Obviously you want to be in an anabolic state as much as possible.
 

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Tis true. Anytime somebody refers to a "catabolic state", that's no bueno.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Catabolism in relation to muscles means your body breaks down muscle tissue in order to get some needed nutrient. In effect, if you want to put on muscle, catabolism is bad.

Anabolism is the term for your body putting on more muscle.

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ROFL yea what md3 said....
 

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dj ben2 said:
get a job who u talking to ? and if im on a low carb eating plan its best if i have carbs b4 i work out ?
carbs before and after your workout.

penkitten, what is your problem please?
 

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Warboss Alex said:
carbs before and after your workout.

simple or complex carbs?? how long should i wait after ive eaten b4 i can actually do the workout ?


TY SO MUCH INFO IS GR8LY APPRECIATED
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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