"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Lord of the rings: return of the flings

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One of the hottest girls I hooked up years ago during school days, texted me out of the blue just right now on my Instagram.

Think 9/10. Beautiful flawless skin, large tight breasts, tall, demon in the sack.

We stopped hooking up since I called her out on some of her bs and I was rather rude and direct, called her a gold digging b!tch etc.

She got super pissed and we never talked since.

What's your take?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Depends what she's up to and what you're up to. If it's just smash, then go for it. If it might turn into drama, pass.
 

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She still considers you as a Beta in her orbit. :rolleyes:
 

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I still haven't replied to her hi.

Think I'd just "sup" and go get a new plate to make things whole tonight.
 

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One of the hottest girls I hooked up years ago during school days, texted me out of the blue just right now on my Instagram.

Think 9/10. Beautiful flawless skin, large tight breasts, tall, demon in the sack.

We stopped hooking up since I called her out on some of her bs and I was rather rude and direct, called her a gold digging b!tch etc.

She got super pissed and we never talked since.

What's your take?
Invite her over for a banging. Gold diggers can't dig if they are just fvck buddies.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Invite her over for a banging. Gold diggers can't dig if they are just fvck buddies.
I got a rule that I don't have sex with any woman unless I got two women dtf.

This is a great opportunity to get another plate, ask them both out and flake on the hot one.
 

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Update:

I went scorched earth policy today.

Hit up 10-15 old plates and 20-30 new social media approaches in a couple of hours.

I got 2 new numbers after confirming dates.

4 old plates are down to hang out.

I'm not texting this one ex fling back for now and let her spin.

Wait and watch. Could be a monetary favour scenario.

Let's see.
 
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