"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Loosing the last bit of belly

Prodoge

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Since february I've been working out at home with the aim to get fit (main objective) but also be in good shape. I have been Running either 7 or 10 km 3 times a week (2 on a busy week), and doing some basic work out for abs and arm muscles.

Right now I am not sure how much body fat I have, but when I contract my abs they are clearly visible, even when I pull my bit of belly in they are visible but not quite as clearly.

I would like to know what the problem is ? (Too much bodyfat or the way I am built)
And what I can do to get the abs visible without having to contract them?

Thanks for the help!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Yewki

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Here's a good chart showing what different BF percentages look like

Some of it is genetics, but you could also probably lose a lot more fat than you realize

Most guys who appear to be in good shape sit around 15% BF, which is good but going down further to 10% can make a big difference. The question is, is it worth it to you and is it something you can sustain?
 

Prodoge

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It's hard to tell, on the chart is it while contracting the muscles ?
 

Who Dares Win

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The problem with those charts is that they take for granted that your fat is evenly distributed in your body, in my case I have no fat on arms and legs while the majority of it is in the front of my upper body.

You can see the 3 heads of my delts easily yet you cant see the lower abs or the perimeter of my pecs.
 
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