"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Loosing the last bit of belly

Prodoge

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Since february I've been working out at home with the aim to get fit (main objective) but also be in good shape. I have been Running either 7 or 10 km 3 times a week (2 on a busy week), and doing some basic work out for abs and arm muscles.

Right now I am not sure how much body fat I have, but when I contract my abs they are clearly visible, even when I pull my bit of belly in they are visible but not quite as clearly.

I would like to know what the problem is ? (Too much bodyfat or the way I am built)
And what I can do to get the abs visible without having to contract them?

Thanks for the help!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yewki

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Here's a good chart showing what different BF percentages look like

Some of it is genetics, but you could also probably lose a lot more fat than you realize

Most guys who appear to be in good shape sit around 15% BF, which is good but going down further to 10% can make a big difference. The question is, is it worth it to you and is it something you can sustain?
 

Prodoge

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It's hard to tell, on the chart is it while contracting the muscles ?
 

Who Dares Win

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The problem with those charts is that they take for granted that your fat is evenly distributed in your body, in my case I have no fat on arms and legs while the majority of it is in the front of my upper body.

You can see the 3 heads of my delts easily yet you cant see the lower abs or the perimeter of my pecs.
 
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