"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Loosing the last bit of belly

Prodoge

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Since february I've been working out at home with the aim to get fit (main objective) but also be in good shape. I have been Running either 7 or 10 km 3 times a week (2 on a busy week), and doing some basic work out for abs and arm muscles.

Right now I am not sure how much body fat I have, but when I contract my abs they are clearly visible, even when I pull my bit of belly in they are visible but not quite as clearly.

I would like to know what the problem is ? (Too much bodyfat or the way I am built)
And what I can do to get the abs visible without having to contract them?

Thanks for the help!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yewki

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Here's a good chart showing what different BF percentages look like

Some of it is genetics, but you could also probably lose a lot more fat than you realize

Most guys who appear to be in good shape sit around 15% BF, which is good but going down further to 10% can make a big difference. The question is, is it worth it to you and is it something you can sustain?
 

Prodoge

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It's hard to tell, on the chart is it while contracting the muscles ?
 

Who Dares Win

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The problem with those charts is that they take for granted that your fat is evenly distributed in your body, in my case I have no fat on arms and legs while the majority of it is in the front of my upper body.

You can see the 3 heads of my delts easily yet you cant see the lower abs or the perimeter of my pecs.
 
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