"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Genz and Gen A have normalized every red pill terminology and tactic. My little sisters are regularly throwing out terms that I would only hear on this site or on specific YouTube channels.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"Looksmaxxing is a practice in which people perform several body care routines in an effort to improve ones physical appearance. Some of these practices are fairly common and standard, such as clearing up facial acne, going to the gym, getting a new haircut, or moisturizing..."

All counsel we regularly received in the pages of Maxim and FHM, back in The 90s-early '10s, and from pre-Woke Askmen during The 2000s-15. Tough to not mourn the days when we simply refereed to such things as "embracing adulthood"*, instead of lapsing into Manosphere gibberish. It's a relief to read that many young men seem to be rediscovering what was once self-evident though



*This isn't even especially modern
 

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Might as well call it SimpMaxxing
A fella goes grooms, exercises, eats well, looks after his psychological and intellectual health, and wears fresh, chic clothes for himself, first and foremost. Today, being honest enough to admit that arousing the lust of beautiful women is a perk of all the aforementioned is now labelled "simping", by a handful of societal dropouts in The Manosphere

Who've hoodwinked and bamboozled many of us into believing that they're the keeper of esoteric truths, incomprehensible to only them. The so-called "thinking" of these Red Pill Ayatollahs is no less bankrupt than the anemic ruminations one hears out of The Woke

https://compassionthemovement.wordp...irst issue is that,crutch for your self worth

 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This is an appropriate reaction to a mating environment where women have endless choices that are easily accessible.
That, or a growing number of us realizing that once a guy reaches the age of majority, it's incumbent on him to prioritize his own self-care. Rather than (As both The Woke Left AND The Manosphere assert)waiting on society to change in some dramatic way, BEFORE we do the basics for ourselves

This was all self-explanatory

to men who lived in the far-from-antiquated past
 

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That, or a growing number of us realizing that once a guy reaches the age of majority, it's incumbent on him to prioritize his own self-care. Rather than (As both The Woke Left AND The Manosphere assert)waiting on society to change in some dramatic way, BEFORE we do the basics for ourselves

This was all self-explanatory

to men who lived in the far-from-antiquated past
At 5:15, the author talks about how leading men in the Golden Age of Hollywood were much taller than their contemporaries. :mad: :mad:
 

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At 5:15, the author talks about how leading men in the Golden Age of Hollywood were much taller than their contemporaries. :mad: :mad:
He's wrong though. Paul Newman, Brando, James Dean, John Garfield, Bogart, and a s-it-ton more actors from this era were medium height-points below
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Genz and Gen A have normalized every red pill terminology and tactic. My little sisters are regularly throwing out terms that I would only hear on this site or on specific YouTube channels.
Yup I remember seeing on younger women's profile that they are

"looking for an Alpha who is willing to simp for her"

or

"Not looking for a simp"

These terms were not known by women unless they were looking for them now women are using red pill terminology in their vernacular (im talking mainly the younger ones) I remember 2 years ago I went on a date with a 24 year old and she asked me about my thoughts on Andrew Tate, I noticed her frown when I said I liked his takes on banks and self-improvement and quickly changed the subject

RP stuff has blown up all over social media now I don't even bring that shyt up to women it's a fool's errand nor do I care to as I feel I have outgrown a lot of RP tropes which In real life is not applicable in day to day situations especially when it comes to dating women. It's more so a framework but if you had a father or positive masculine role figures in your life a lot of this stuff is just common sense!
 

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RP stuff has blown up all over social media now...
Alongside Woke gobbledygook
1:28:40-1:29:12

The near-extinction of clear communication is advancing our civilization, morally and intellectually, in ways unseen since the rise of Reality TV
 

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The purpose of becoming ANY form of a dj is to be able to more easily meet new women. So these " super simps" are djs, even if they wont identify as such.

Every new and sometimes even women who know you for years gotta first of all Notice you. Nobody cares how you achieve that goal.

Once such a ma in knee deep in the game he'll learn the hard way that looks and "only" 25% of the equation. Its gets you more job interviews, but you are yet far removed from your "dream job".
 

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Alongside Woke gobbledygook
1:28:40-1:29:12

The near-extinction of clear communication is advancing our civilization, morally and intellectually, in ways unseen since the rise of Reality TV
The issue is most men swear by RP talking points and tropes but don't go out to experience life, women, etc for themselves so then you have guys regurating things. Then when a guy like me comes along and says hey guys there women over there that like nerdy guys everyone things I'm lying or selling kool-aide

But it is what it is, I noticed that there a lot of guys who don't need "Red Pill" but therapy and mental help. I don't mean that as an insult but women isn't SOME guy's problems,
 

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But it is what it is, I noticed that there a lot of guys who don't need "Red Pill" but therapy and mental help. I don't mean that as an insult but women isn't SOME guy's problems,
Red Pill Theology is quite similar to Afrocentrism, in more than a few respects


Both are "therapeutic", in the most putrid sense of that word. They give their True Believers an overarching theory of reality that makes us "feel good" temporarily, but doesn't actually strengthen us over the long haul
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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