It's your frame of mind that matters. It's unbelievable how many opportunities slip IF you assume that looks, money, status, etc. are preventing you from dating who you want. That negative mindset of looking for excuses for why you are not with who you want to be is what is most detrimental, not the factors you are worried. The worry is the blockade.
For instance, in high school, random girls in my classes would talk to me all the time, tease me, and flirt with me, but I HAD NO IDEA that's what they were doing. It was my frame of mind which proved the most significant hindrance.
Even throughout college and afterwards, I could not get it through my thick skull that pretty and even hot girls wanted to date guys who were not celebrities!
My recommendation is to stop filling your mind with brainwashing garbage about what's attractive and what's not and actually get out there and ASSUME you are attractive. This confidence is what is attractive.
For instance, in high school, random girls in my classes would talk to me all the time, tease me, and flirt with me, but I HAD NO IDEA that's what they were doing. It was my frame of mind which proved the most significant hindrance.
Even throughout college and afterwards, I could not get it through my thick skull that pretty and even hot girls wanted to date guys who were not celebrities!
My recommendation is to stop filling your mind with brainwashing garbage about what's attractive and what's not and actually get out there and ASSUME you are attractive. This confidence is what is attractive.
