"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Looks Truly Do Not Matter

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It's your frame of mind that matters. It's unbelievable how many opportunities slip IF you assume that looks, money, status, etc. are preventing you from dating who you want. That negative mindset of looking for excuses for why you are not with who you want to be is what is most detrimental, not the factors you are worried. The worry is the blockade.

For instance, in high school, random girls in my classes would talk to me all the time, tease me, and flirt with me, but I HAD NO IDEA that's what they were doing. It was my frame of mind which proved the most significant hindrance.

Even throughout college and afterwards, I could not get it through my thick skull that pretty and even hot girls wanted to date guys who were not celebrities!

My recommendation is to stop filling your mind with brainwashing garbage about what's attractive and what's not and actually get out there and ASSUME you are attractive. This confidence is what is attractive.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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While I think a person's mind/thoughts effects how successful they are in dating and I have seen couples were I couldn't believe the female was with the male because she was so much better looking than him...I wouldn't say looks don't matter...If these women found the guys to be physically unattractive they wouldn't be with them. I think it just depends on female and what her preferences are.

I guess the listen here is don't discount your chances because of your looks because you never know.
 
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I see ugly guys with hot chicks all the time lol and the drive a **** box and clearly dont have much money
 
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