"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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8-8.5 for me.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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7.5-8 i think we all need another pic though cuz this looks like it could be one of those pics that just turned out really well.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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As presented, I rate her Fvckable and Publicly Presentable.
 
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Atom Smasher said:
Her nose is her worst feature. It is not nicely shaped.
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Yeah I agree, as well as the joker style thin lips, plus proportions of her face. All very very minor things though.
8 imo
 
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KarmaSutra said:
You're not a woman if you don't have t!ts to fvck.
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I can get a handful of those, I have short chubby fingers. Good enough for me!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Warrior74 said:
As presented, I rate her Fvckable and Publicly Presentable.
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This, lol


very good looking girl..

the people rating her a 7.. lets see what you consider a 9 or 10..
 
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L.A. 7.5
South Beach 6.5
Butte, Montana 10+
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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A little too skinny for me, but I'de give an 8. Definitely agree with the nose and lips comments.

Just looks like the type of girl with absolutely no a$$
 
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At best, a 7.

You're not a woman if you don't have t!ts to fvck.
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Ok I'm gonna do a drive by here for a second only because this guy has done it to me about 50 Million times. A 7 huh? At best? Oh you have to be all bad azz, keep up that persona, and downgrade this girl huh? Why don't you post some pics of the girls you have been dating from that How To Be a Man book you are writing? Please? Coming from someone who looks like you, that is surprising. She is a very solid 8-8.5 and I can promise you 95% of the guys on here have not had anything close to her, including you. I would lay every dime I have that this girl would look at you and laugh and laugh if you tried to pick her up. You are not even in the same city block as her.

This is you> http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_tdGaZbi1CmY/Sf9Q1LoE8VI/AAAAAAAAABo/BOAjpD_eXvQ/S220-h/Frater+KS2.jpeg

I'm not saying you're ugly, I mean you have a decent face, but you are the epitome of what we call white trash. And I'm white, grew up middle class. You have a beer gut. Smoke. Tats. I'm guessing you live in Florida, trailer park, sucking down 40's all day while watching nascar.

You WISH you could get with a girl like that.

BTW..fashion tip, cutoff T-shirts should be worn exclusively at the gym for working out, anywhere else and you'll get called.....well, I already said it. :) Do you sleep in a bed with a black headboard and a blanket with a panther on it??

Carry on with your book please.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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