"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Atom Smasher
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Her nose is her worst feature. It is not nicely shaped.Colossus said:
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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You're not a woman if you don't have t!ts to fvck.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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This, lolWarrior74 said:
very good looking girl..
the people rating her a 7.. lets see what you consider a 9 or 10..
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L.A. 7.5
South Beach 6.5
Butte, Montana 10+
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Blows blondie out of the waterDemodulate said:
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Yep, 10+ in Butte, MT. She has all of her teeth.Rollo Tomassi said:
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
powpow
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Ok I'm gonna do a drive by here for a second only because this guy has done it to me about 50 Million times. A 7 huh? At best? Oh you have to be all bad azz, keep up that persona, and downgrade this girl huh? Why don't you post some pics of the girls you have been dating from that How To Be a Man book you are writing? Please? Coming from someone who looks like you, that is surprising. She is a very solid 8-8.5 and I can promise you 95% of the guys on here have not had anything close to her, including you. I would lay every dime I have that this girl would look at you and laugh and laugh if you tried to pick her up. You are not even in the same city block as her.KarmaSutra said:
This is you> http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_tdGaZbi1CmY/Sf9Q1LoE8VI/AAAAAAAAABo/BOAjpD_eXvQ/S220-h/Frater+KS2.jpeg
I'm not saying you're ugly, I mean you have a decent face, but you are the epitome of what we call white trash. And I'm white, grew up middle class. You have a beer gut. Smoke. Tats. I'm guessing you live in Florida, trailer park, sucking down 40's all day while watching nascar.
You WISH you could get with a girl like that.
BTW..fashion tip, cutoff T-shirts should be worn exclusively at the gym for working out, anywhere else and you'll get called.....well, I already said it.
Do you sleep in a bed with a black headboard and a blanket with a panther on it??Carry on with your book please.
powpow
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.