Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Her nose is her worst feature. It is not nicely shaped.Colossus said:Lol 7 guys, really??
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Yeah I agree, as well as the joker style thin lips, plus proportions of her face. All very very minor things though.Atom Smasher said:Her nose is her worst feature. It is not nicely shaped.
I can get a handful of those, I have short chubby fingers. Good enough for me!KarmaSutra said:You're not a woman if you don't have t!ts to fvck.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
This, lolWarrior74 said:As presented, I rate her Fvckable and Publicly Presentable.
Blows blondie out of the waterDemodulate said:the people rating her a 7.. lets see what you consider a 9 or 10..
Yep, 10+ in Butte, MT. She has all of her teeth.Rollo Tomassi said:NYC 8
L.A. 7.5
South Beach 6.5
Butte, Montana 10+
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Ok I'm gonna do a drive by here for a second only because this guy has done it to me about 50 Million times. A 7 huh? At best? Oh you have to be all bad azz, keep up that persona, and downgrade this girl huh? Why don't you post some pics of the girls you have been dating from that How To Be a Man book you are writing? Please? Coming from someone who looks like you, that is surprising. She is a very solid 8-8.5 and I can promise you 95% of the guys on here have not had anything close to her, including you. I would lay every dime I have that this girl would look at you and laugh and laugh if you tried to pick her up. You are not even in the same city block as her.KarmaSutra said:At best, a 7.
You're not a woman if you don't have t!ts to fvck.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.