She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
"Game" seems like a rather vague term, IMO. It would have to include not only tactics and strategies, but also your basic personality and how comfortable you are around women and people in general. In fact, I would argue that the latter is more important than the former. Another factor would be on whether or not people tend to like you and gravitate toward you (for social proof).It's really a combo of status and "game".
It really is that. Just being able to bond with someone without getting autistic."Game" seems like a rather vague term, IMO. It would have to include not only tactics and strategies, but also your basic personality and how comfortable you are around women and people in general. In fact, I would argue that the latter is more important than the former. Another factor would be on whether or not people tend to like you and gravitate toward you (for social proof).
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Nah. It really factors in the equation. It just isn't defined clearly. Getting females isnt just blackpill."Game" is a cope.
I disagree. Like how all strategies aim to reach some objective, not all work out. Some do. In fact, defining good conversation requires some concept of game.Game has always been about silly tactics like:
* Push/Pull
* C0cky & funny
* Wait X number of days before calling
* day game approaches
* Wearing ridiculous clothes and acting like a buffoon
The only type of game guys need to develope is their conversation skills and of course have their L.M.S. on point.....
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
A lot of that is simply experience though. If you're used to talking to pretty girls, you're less likely to get nervous around them. If you're used to having sex, you won't feel so awkward escalating.Some men can approach cool, calm and confident often yielding a positive result, or they can be nervous and awkward, often yielding a negative result.
There is some discussion between looks, money, and status though. Some say looks is all that matters (black pillers). Others say status rules all. Some think money doesn't matter at all, and some say it can even hurt you (that they will see as a beta bucks, or won't give you sex because they see you as a catch and want you to think they're a "good girl").I have no idea why it is so common to structure the discussion in this "vs" kind of way, or why people don't discuss the "vs" aspect between looks, money and status.
Exactly. There are discussions about which one is the most efficient way to get laid.There is some discussion between looks, money, and status though. Some say looks is all that matter (black pillers). Others say status rules all. Some think money doesn't matter at all, and some say it can even hurt you (that they will see as a beta bucks, or won't give you sex because they see you as a catch and want you to think they're a "good girl").
Interesting. Rollo always maintained that game trumps all. But if you reduce its importance to be "only" equally important as the other aspects, it comes off as much less cringey. To be a well rounded man like you suggest seems much more satisfying. A lot of PUA game aims to fake the other aspects anyway. Look good, be healthy, have some money, be financially secure, have some status, and be able to interact with women. Sounds like a well rounded human to aspire to being.The point I am making is that you cannot point to any one thing as being any more important than anything else. Best approach for any man is to pursue all of these things because there are all types of women who prioritize things entirely differently.
I'll probably check it out, but not sure I would take advice from something called "IncelTV", lol.Gents, please check this video out.... IncelTV does an absolutely masterful job dismantling this PUA game myth with real world proof....
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Bruh, I'm redpill MGTOW all day and daily, but I've learned not to be dismissive towards the blackpill Incel boys because there is a lot of brutal truth to what they say...and i do enjoy the dark nihilistic humor of their community....I'll probably check it out, but not sure I would take advice from something called "IncelTV", lol.
His line "So we aren't able to stimulate you?" was pretty funny though, even the girls laughed![]()
Game is wit, experience and strategy. They desire it. Complaining about it doesnt help you.Women use game. Show me a girl that hasn’t pulled back after you met her, you’d have a unicorn on tour hands. They develop game quickly, once they realize they are beautiful it’s all over, v*gina worth money, and they trade it in. Your attention for her v*gina. Game is her chasing your attention. They want men to have game, otherwise they can’t fall in love, develop enough interest, so they end up in relationships with low interest, unhealthy and unfruitful, and end up riding the cck caurusel. Don Juan is a breath of fresh air for women, and it’s much better choice for long term.
It's not about friend zone, it's about attraction. An ugly guy who escalates is liable to find himself on the wrong side of the MeToo movement.That well rounded part is nothing more then your neediness. Disguised as something your brain tells you feels good. If your not fckng her she isnt your woman. Its THAT simple. Whatever gets you there is the game "part" everything else is friend zone. (Money status, job looks, ) yadda yadda
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.