"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Looks are more important than you think! Merged [Official thread]

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Now would you guys please STOP posting the same topic over and over again!
I'm so sick of these stupid "looks"-threads, Im gonna give neg reputation for this one, you fool! :trouble: :kick:
 

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In my opinion, looks matter certainly on first impressions but if you can switch on all the attractive qualities in a conversation with any woman, then that can always lead to things a more attractive man with lesser game would only dream of.
 

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DukeNukem said:
Now would you guys please STOP posting the same topic over and over again!
I'm so sick of these stupid "looks"-threads, Im gonna give neg reputation for this one, you fool! :trouble: :kick:
Are you slow?

I made this post to be stickied so posts on looks would stop.

I too am tired of seeing all these posts about looks and I believe if this is stickied it will take care of that problem.

Did you read the first paragraph?

People are sick of looks threads that’s why I made this thread TOOL.

Mods sticky this.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Agreed....

Put it this way

Attractive male+masculine personality= extremely attractive
Average male+masculine personality= attractive
Attractive male+feminine personality= unattractive
Average male+feminine personality= extremely unattractive


a masculine personality meaning: mentally strong, competitive, disciplined, strong-willed, risk-taking.

feminine personality meaning: insecure, sensitive, self-conscious, anxiety

Its more about the vibe you give off. The good-looks will only serve to enhance your overall attractiveness.
 

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How about a way someone's never put it before.

Your best friend. Does he have to be good looking? Hell no. He's your best friend because he's cool as hell, you guys have a good time together and you share common interests.

A woman told me this. This is probably the best analogy I've heard and this should help guys really understand it's not just about looks. Really think about that.
 

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70% looks 30% game to get a date or for her to be interested.

30% looks 70% game to keep her
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Spaceman I appreciate your analogy but best friends are different. There is no attraction between best friends (at least I hope not) to get a woman you need to look decent. The analogy is flawed.

Like I said in your previous posts recycled information is used for recycled questions.

We are on the same page though.
 

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You're wrong Leviathan.

Some of the most beautiful woman in the world are married to ugly guys.

Seal? BURNT face, ugly, and is married to HEIDI KLUM! And to top that off, they aren't even of the same race.

So yes, the best friend analogy is close. I didn't say it was perfect, did I?
 

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Man the best friend analogy in no way touches on physical or emotional attraction between two people. Friendships and relationships are two different things you can't use an analogy of a friendship between two men to describe why women can be attracted to ugly men. It is a whole different ball park yes women can be attracted to ugly men but your analogy is flawed.

Cindy Crawford’s husbands is a rich ex model.

Brook Burke's is a famous, rich plastic surgeon.

Celebrities are not good examples.

And wtf has race got to do with anything?
 

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spaceman2001 said:
How about a way someone's never put it before.

Your best friend. Does he have to be good looking? Hell no. He's your best friend because he's cool as hell, you guys have a good time together and you share common interests.

A woman told me this. This is probably the best analogy I've heard and this should help guys really understand it's not just about looks. Really think about that.
As far as I've understood your analogy, you have sex with your best friend, who is terribly ugly?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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..lol..I feel tempted to respond the same way you did @leviathan ;-)
If your talking about Duke........he is responding to spaceman.

If not what do u mean by that?
 

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My point is they can get many RICH GOOD LOOKING MEN TOO, but they settle for much less, don't they??

And race doesn't have to do with anything, but it lessens the odds of a hookup. Most people stay within their race.

So with what I am saying, I am right.

And I think you're misunderstanding what I'm saying. I'm not saying you should not brush your teeth, not dress with style, etc. Don't over-analyze

And no, I don't have sex with my best friend. I'm straight. Don't be an idiot.

Leviathan, you over analyze way too much.
 

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Ok man whatever you have your analogy I have mine which is more understandable. We both agree that looks aren’t the be all and end all of attracting women.

I don't know about America but here in Australia people do not stick to their own race. Cindy Crawford husband is an ex model wow he doesn't look good in a picture take of him after he was married and he had a chance to let himself go. Remember she was previously married to Richard Geere, celebreties are bad examples.

Sticky the post so we avoid threads arguing over the importance of looks to your game.

MODS??
 

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Lenny Kravitz is a ugly mofo. So are many other "hot hot hottttt" men. A man, be it "metrosexual" or not, takes care of how he looks, he won't be walking with the robes of a friggin hippie or ****. You walk straight, clean, like the alpha male you are, and that is attractive...

At the end of the day, you must give your best... not because you're going to get *****, but because you want to be the greatest.
 

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Lenny kravits was engaged to supermodel adriana lima 2 years ago, and you'r going to sit here and tell me that adriana lima can't do better? pfft
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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