"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Looks are more important than you think! Merged [Official thread]

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Now would you guys please STOP posting the same topic over and over again!
I'm so sick of these stupid "looks"-threads, Im gonna give neg reputation for this one, you fool! :trouble: :kick:
 

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In my opinion, looks matter certainly on first impressions but if you can switch on all the attractive qualities in a conversation with any woman, then that can always lead to things a more attractive man with lesser game would only dream of.
 

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DukeNukem said:
Now would you guys please STOP posting the same topic over and over again!
I'm so sick of these stupid "looks"-threads, Im gonna give neg reputation for this one, you fool! :trouble: :kick:
Are you slow?

I made this post to be stickied so posts on looks would stop.

I too am tired of seeing all these posts about looks and I believe if this is stickied it will take care of that problem.

Did you read the first paragraph?

People are sick of looks threads that’s why I made this thread TOOL.

Mods sticky this.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Agreed....

Put it this way

Attractive male+masculine personality= extremely attractive
Average male+masculine personality= attractive
Attractive male+feminine personality= unattractive
Average male+feminine personality= extremely unattractive


a masculine personality meaning: mentally strong, competitive, disciplined, strong-willed, risk-taking.

feminine personality meaning: insecure, sensitive, self-conscious, anxiety

Its more about the vibe you give off. The good-looks will only serve to enhance your overall attractiveness.
 

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How about a way someone's never put it before.

Your best friend. Does he have to be good looking? Hell no. He's your best friend because he's cool as hell, you guys have a good time together and you share common interests.

A woman told me this. This is probably the best analogy I've heard and this should help guys really understand it's not just about looks. Really think about that.
 

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70% looks 30% game to get a date or for her to be interested.

30% looks 70% game to keep her
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Spaceman I appreciate your analogy but best friends are different. There is no attraction between best friends (at least I hope not) to get a woman you need to look decent. The analogy is flawed.

Like I said in your previous posts recycled information is used for recycled questions.

We are on the same page though.
 

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You're wrong Leviathan.

Some of the most beautiful woman in the world are married to ugly guys.

Seal? BURNT face, ugly, and is married to HEIDI KLUM! And to top that off, they aren't even of the same race.

So yes, the best friend analogy is close. I didn't say it was perfect, did I?
 

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Man the best friend analogy in no way touches on physical or emotional attraction between two people. Friendships and relationships are two different things you can't use an analogy of a friendship between two men to describe why women can be attracted to ugly men. It is a whole different ball park yes women can be attracted to ugly men but your analogy is flawed.

Cindy Crawford’s husbands is a rich ex model.

Brook Burke's is a famous, rich plastic surgeon.

Celebrities are not good examples.

And wtf has race got to do with anything?
 

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spaceman2001 said:
How about a way someone's never put it before.

Your best friend. Does he have to be good looking? Hell no. He's your best friend because he's cool as hell, you guys have a good time together and you share common interests.

A woman told me this. This is probably the best analogy I've heard and this should help guys really understand it's not just about looks. Really think about that.
As far as I've understood your analogy, you have sex with your best friend, who is terribly ugly?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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..lol..I feel tempted to respond the same way you did @leviathan ;-)
If your talking about Duke........he is responding to spaceman.

If not what do u mean by that?
 

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My point is they can get many RICH GOOD LOOKING MEN TOO, but they settle for much less, don't they??

And race doesn't have to do with anything, but it lessens the odds of a hookup. Most people stay within their race.

So with what I am saying, I am right.

And I think you're misunderstanding what I'm saying. I'm not saying you should not brush your teeth, not dress with style, etc. Don't over-analyze

And no, I don't have sex with my best friend. I'm straight. Don't be an idiot.

Leviathan, you over analyze way too much.
 

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Ok man whatever you have your analogy I have mine which is more understandable. We both agree that looks aren’t the be all and end all of attracting women.

I don't know about America but here in Australia people do not stick to their own race. Cindy Crawford husband is an ex model wow he doesn't look good in a picture take of him after he was married and he had a chance to let himself go. Remember she was previously married to Richard Geere, celebreties are bad examples.

Sticky the post so we avoid threads arguing over the importance of looks to your game.

MODS??
 

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Lenny Kravitz is a ugly mofo. So are many other "hot hot hottttt" men. A man, be it "metrosexual" or not, takes care of how he looks, he won't be walking with the robes of a friggin hippie or ****. You walk straight, clean, like the alpha male you are, and that is attractive...

At the end of the day, you must give your best... not because you're going to get *****, but because you want to be the greatest.
 

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Lenny kravits was engaged to supermodel adriana lima 2 years ago, and you'r going to sit here and tell me that adriana lima can't do better? pfft
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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