DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
I agree!
belividere did make a good point. Someone's using that noggin....
belividere did make a good point. Someone's using that noggin....
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
l777 - every single one of UR threads follows thsi formula:L777 said:Skip, every single one of your threads follows this formula:
1. State debatable opinion as gospel truth.
2. Back 'truth' up with anecdotes - a.k.a boasting.
3. Boast more.
4. Swear a lot to sound hard.
Bearing in mind that this is actually 100% true, just take a minute to ponder how people perceive you on this site, and more importantly, if they actually want to hear any more of your opinions. (The answer's no btw, numbnuts)
maybe from UR eyes.. but in othereys they could be UGLY ASS HELL!!no more of this bullshyt "oh but i see ugly guys with hot girls" - THOSE GUYS ARE NOT UGLY
Bravo, very mature. I'm hurt now.skip2mylou781 said:l777 - every single one of UR threads follows thsi formula:
1) I am british
2) I do not like your american ways
3) you suck skip, so im gonna flame u as always
4) know any good dentists???
seriously l77, SHUT UP, and STOP REPLYING TO ANY OF MY THREADS, YOU DO NOT ADD VALUE
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
chrizz?.. its no point, you know.. Internetcant trust somone over the internet. people are full of bull**** when it comes to internet but when it comes to in REAL LIFE they are just P*ssy
actually u cant trust anyone on this site
gosh ucant even trust me.. why bcuz maybe im wrong
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i have ****ed 1000girlsits true, BELIVE ME OR NOT!!! ITS TRUE ****ERS
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
no they dont. Whenever a guy picks up a girl, it is due to simply 2 things:Scrumtulescence said:Mediocre looking guys with great confidence and game pick up hot chicks all the time. You're full of sh1t, stop posting.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.