"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I agree!
belividere did make a good point. Someone's using that noggin....:up:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hey! two things:
1. It would be logical that girls evaluate guys in EXACTELY the same way as guys do. yeah, I know, sperm is cheaper than egg, bla bla bla. Did a single sperm ever come out of you? If an egg is a million times bigger than an egg, and you ejaculate a million sperm (which you do more or less), how's that any cheaper? Oh, and of course a woman would rather be stuck with a good looking baby than an ugly one.
2. In chimp societies, AFAIK, the males with higher status get more mating opportunities, indicating that confidence and status = sexy. But the lower ranking chimps still get to have sex if they can avoid being seen by the head chimps. That could also be the reason why women marry rich ugly men and then **** poor good looking men. Also, I read somewhere that women orgasm more easily with better looking men, thus sucking their sperm closer to the egg. SO, maybe women simply evolved two instincts: **** high status guys, and **** good looking guys, the second instinct being older and propably stronger.

SO, how about looking as good as possible AND having high status, by getting as much positive attention as possible without being "needy". "Positive" meaning admiration and respect, not being viewed as a "really nice guy". Also, money helps, but the money thing is propably a veeery week impulse and almost completely rational, since money and possesions are rather recent occurances compared to social status and good genes and a strong, lean body.
 

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most of u havent read my thread.......the examples i provide are perfect examples to prove my theory!! what kinda naive guys are u really/??

also, "horny myspace sluts" are the same horny girls u see on the street cuz EVERYONE HAS A MYSPACE ANYWAY

also, when YOU say u see an ugly guy with a hot girl, keep in mind that THAT GIRL THINKS HE IS HOT - if she didnt, she wouldnt b with him. To u something might be ugly, to a hb9 that something might be HOT.

no more of this bullshyt "oh but i see ugly guys with hot girls" - THOSE GUYS ARE NOT UGLY

p.s. - im on sosuave cuz i ****in wanna be, and YEA i do get most of my girls thru my looks initially, but then of course they like how i am too which is why i end up fcuking them..........but dont expect to have success if a girl thinks you are ugly.

no way in HELL can u game a girl who thinks u are ugly and has no physical attraction to u - stop living in ur dream dj bible david dangelo world
 

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Skip, every single one of your threads follows this formula:

1. State debatable opinion as gospel truth.

2. Back 'truth' up with anecdotes - a.k.a boasting.

3. Boast more.

4. Swear a lot to sound hard.

Bearing in mind that this is actually 100% true, just take a minute to ponder how people perceive you on this site, and more importantly, if they actually want to hear any more of your opinions. (The answer's no btw, numbnuts :D)
 

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yake - most definitely being hot in most hot women's eyes, AND having high status, AND having a great personality will make u THE most desirable.......but take looks away and u wont do as well.

However, one can get by on simply bein ****in hot as hell without much else, which is why i say LOOKS ARE ABSOLUTELY THE MOST IMPORTANT THING TO WORK ON IF U WANAN IMPROVE SUCCESS WITH GIRLS
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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L777 said:
Skip, every single one of your threads follows this formula:

1. State debatable opinion as gospel truth.

2. Back 'truth' up with anecdotes - a.k.a boasting.

3. Boast more.

4. Swear a lot to sound hard.

Bearing in mind that this is actually 100% true, just take a minute to ponder how people perceive you on this site, and more importantly, if they actually want to hear any more of your opinions. (The answer's no btw, numbnuts :D)
l777 - every single one of UR threads follows thsi formula:

1) I am british
2) I do not like your american ways
3) you suck skip, so im gonna flame u as always
4) know any good dentists???

seriously l77, SHUT UP, and STOP REPLYING TO ANY OF MY THREADS, YOU DO NOT ADD VALUE
 

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Hey! Don't knock the British. Their tea biscuits will overcome your American donuts anyday.

And then there's Canada and Tim Hortons. I love my country.
 

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one of ur settnings is wrong(clubs) in ur "theory" but thats ur theory.. ;)

no more of this bullshyt "oh but i see ugly guys with hot girls" - THOSE GUYS ARE NOT UGLY
maybe from UR eyes.. but in othereys they could be UGLY ASS HELL!!

givme a pic of ur HB9.5 and i will rate her.. maybe she IS 9.5 as u say or maybe she is ugly! everyone looks different on people when it comes to "looks"
 

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skip2mylou781 said:
l777 - every single one of UR threads follows thsi formula:

1) I am british
2) I do not like your american ways
3) you suck skip, so im gonna flame u as always
4) know any good dentists???

seriously l77, SHUT UP, and STOP REPLYING TO ANY OF MY THREADS, YOU DO NOT ADD VALUE
Bravo, very mature. I'm hurt now.

Seriously though mate, stop these fu.ckin threads.

PS. Weren't you ment to be leaving a while ago?

PPS. Lets see what you look like then, stud. Oh thats right, you never posted a picture of yourself, or any of your HB's. Hmmmm :rolleyes:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dude i DO NOT KNOW how to post pics of girls on sosuave - i have pics of alot of the girls ive ****ed tho, i actually keep a collection, i have no idea how to actually post them tho!!
 

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chrizz?.. its no point, you know.. Internet;) cant trust somone over the internet. people are full of bull**** when it comes to internet but when it comes to in REAL LIFE they are just P*ssy;) actually u cant trust anyone on this site;) gosh ucant even trust me.. why bcuz maybe im wrong:p


i have ****ed 1000girls;) its true, BELIVE ME OR NOT!!! ITS TRUE ****ERS:pP ROFL LOL MAO
 

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Mediocre looking guys with great confidence and game pick up hot chicks all the time. You're full of sh1t, stop posting.
 

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I pimped all your hoes. While you were sleeping, I was pimping them. That's how pimp I am. I'll pimp you next.
chrizz?.. its no point, you know.. Internet;) cant trust somone over the internet. people are full of bull**** when it comes to internet but when it comes to in REAL LIFE they are just P*ssy;) actually u cant trust anyone on this site;) gosh ucant even trust me.. why bcuz maybe im wrong:p


i have ****ed 1000girls;) its true, BELIVE ME OR NOT!!! ITS TRUE ****ERS:pP ROFL LOL MAO
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Mediocre looking guys with great confidence and game pick up hot chicks all the time. You're full of sh1t, stop posting.
no they dont. Whenever a guy picks up a girl, it is due to simply 2 things:

1) SHE thinks that he is attractive enough FOR HER
2) he doesnt totally mess up and sound like Luke Skywalker :)

i kid u not, no matter how much game you have, the girl will disqualify u from any future contact (even if she gives u her #) if u dont meet her needs for looks........and HOT girls NEED a guy who is HOT too (what their definition of hot is a different story)

I know personally hot girls (hb9+) that find the following things very attractive about a guy's looks:

eyes
soft hair
a little fat mixed with some bulk
super skinny and tall
super muscular
tan
6 pacs
very nice smile
pearly white teeth
blowout (its a hair style)
shaved head
big big arms
big chest

as you can all see, some of these things YOU MEN would not look at a guy and say they are hot qualities - but i have come across girls who were crazy smokin hot in my lifetime who thought each of those qualities makes a man HOT IN THEIR EYES.

that is why, if a guy is slightly fat, short, not muscular at all, BUT he has a great smile, nice eyes, and wears his hair in a blowout (italian gotti style), then believe it, there will be hb9s and 10s who flat out think hes the sexiest thing alive!........while YOU chumps look at him and try to use him as an example that looks dont matter because to YOU (and u are all straight so this makes sense) he is more like a 4/10
 

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universally, someone who is ugly-average is someone with no muscle, no tan, weird hair, weird clothes, slightly disfigured face, too fat or too skinny, ect ect

if u are like that, then hb9s and 10s will 99.9% of the time not give u a chance in hell

so, GO IMPROVE UR GODDAMN LOOKS SOLDIERS!
 

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jsut to add more:

SO NO ONE THINGS IM BRAGGING LIKE SOME KINDA SHOWOFF.......

i keep tellin u all bout how successful i am cuz of my supposed hot looks? well yea they are hot TO THOSE GIRLS I AM SUCCESSFUL WITH

what you all dont know is how many times i been rejected or crashed and burned on dates or had girls literally tell me to leave them alone.......its been 100s of those times, do u know why? BECAUSE THEY THOUGHT I WAS TOO UGLY FOR THEM.

this is why I tie my looks theory to the theory of PLAYING THE NUMBERS GAME to be totally successful

that is why i am overall successful and have ended up ****ing 66 girls in just about 3.5 years - improving looks and playing the numbers

anyone who thinks otherwise needs to get a REALITY ****ING CHECK
 

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Okay look, if you look good, you look good. But you might as well not give a sh!t what you look like and still build a personality. Because women who have a super hot model boyfriend but there's NOTHING going on upstairs, she's going to dump him quick. Sure, it will get you laid, but once she realizes that you have the IQ of dog feces, you're done.

My outlook is to fvck what you look like, if she's attracted cool, if not, that's cool too. Just keep doing what you do best (keeping her attractred to you) and the rest will follow. But don't be bent upon what you look like. If you're the most charming fun-loving confident guy who looks like quasimoto, you can still peel girls.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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