612_Da_Playa
Don Juan
I give up you guys. I'm not going to ride my good looks forever. It simpy does NOT work. Does anyone else have this same problem? Girls will be like" He's so cute" then after awhile they forget about me. Any help guys???
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Looks Ain't Sh*t
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Docs
Banned
"Attraction"
Find how to use it somewhere on these boards (I know it's around here!
)...and use it.
That's how you get from "cute", to "mouth-watering"
Find how to use it somewhere on these boards (I know it's around here!
)...and use it.That's how you get from "cute", to "mouth-watering"
Phoenix_of_the_ashes
Master Don Juan
Looks really mean nothing if your a guy. I actually am always the most successful with women the less I care about how I look. Bad haircut, ****ty clothing, unshaved it makes me feel like I have nothing win, I think that makes me seem cooler.
insanity
Master Don Juan
looks get you noticed, but thats about it. i found that when you have a mixed group of guys and girls at a party or whatever. usually you'll see girls send other girls your way and say to you, that so and so thinks your cute/good-looking and thats the cue to go up and dj it.
if it's just you and a crew of guys, good luck on any girls coming for an approach, it sucks but thats the way it works.
alot of times if you rely on your looks to lure the babes. it's usually the ones your not attracted to that make their way you. i found that when i relied on my looks at bars or gatherings and sat back and waited...i got approached by some nasty looking girls. sometimes i seen the cute ones look and look away, then repeated...thats all i needed
if it's just you and a crew of guys, good luck on any girls coming for an approach, it sucks but thats the way it works.
alot of times if you rely on your looks to lure the babes. it's usually the ones your not attracted to that make their way you. i found that when i relied on my looks at bars or gatherings and sat back and waited...i got approached by some nasty looking girls. sometimes i seen the cute ones look and look away, then repeated...thats all i needed
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.