612_Da_Playa
Don Juan
I give up you guys. I'm not going to ride my good looks forever. It simpy does NOT work. Does anyone else have this same problem? Girls will be like" He's so cute" then after awhile they forget about me. Any help guys???
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Looks Ain't Sh*t
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Docs
Banned
"Attraction"
Find how to use it somewhere on these boards (I know it's around here!
)...and use it.
That's how you get from "cute", to "mouth-watering"
Find how to use it somewhere on these boards (I know it's around here!
)...and use it.That's how you get from "cute", to "mouth-watering"
Phoenix_of_the_ashes
Master Don Juan
Looks really mean nothing if your a guy. I actually am always the most successful with women the less I care about how I look. Bad haircut, ****ty clothing, unshaved it makes me feel like I have nothing win, I think that makes me seem cooler.
insanity
Master Don Juan
looks get you noticed, but thats about it. i found that when you have a mixed group of guys and girls at a party or whatever. usually you'll see girls send other girls your way and say to you, that so and so thinks your cute/good-looking and thats the cue to go up and dj it.
if it's just you and a crew of guys, good luck on any girls coming for an approach, it sucks but thats the way it works.
alot of times if you rely on your looks to lure the babes. it's usually the ones your not attracted to that make their way you. i found that when i relied on my looks at bars or gatherings and sat back and waited...i got approached by some nasty looking girls. sometimes i seen the cute ones look and look away, then repeated...thats all i needed
if it's just you and a crew of guys, good luck on any girls coming for an approach, it sucks but thats the way it works.
alot of times if you rely on your looks to lure the babes. it's usually the ones your not attracted to that make their way you. i found that when i relied on my looks at bars or gatherings and sat back and waited...i got approached by some nasty looking girls. sometimes i seen the cute ones look and look away, then repeated...thats all i needed
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.