"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Looks Ain't Sh*t

612_Da_Playa

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I give up you guys. I'm not going to ride my good looks forever. It simpy does NOT work. Does anyone else have this same problem? Girls will be like" He's so cute" then after awhile they forget about me. Any help guys???
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Docs

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"Attraction"

Find how to use it somewhere on these boards (I know it's around here! :D)...and use it.

That's how you get from "cute", to "mouth-watering"
 

Phoenix_of_the_ashes

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Looks really mean nothing if your a guy. I actually am always the most successful with women the less I care about how I look. Bad haircut, ****ty clothing, unshaved it makes me feel like I have nothing win, I think that makes me seem cooler.
 

Cruise

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Not the looks, but the LOOK. The Strength, Power, Vigor, Virility, and Presence that attracts and holds attraction.


Time to hit the study table pimpin' !!!
 

insanity

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looks get you noticed, but thats about it. i found that when you have a mixed group of guys and girls at a party or whatever. usually you'll see girls send other girls your way and say to you, that so and so thinks your cute/good-looking and thats the cue to go up and dj it.

if it's just you and a crew of guys, good luck on any girls coming for an approach, it sucks but thats the way it works.

alot of times if you rely on your looks to lure the babes. it's usually the ones your not attracted to that make their way you. i found that when i relied on my looks at bars or gatherings and sat back and waited...i got approached by some nasty looking girls. sometimes i seen the cute ones look and look away, then repeated...thats all i needed
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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