"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Looks Ain't Sh*t

612_Da_Playa

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I give up you guys. I'm not going to ride my good looks forever. It simpy does NOT work. Does anyone else have this same problem? Girls will be like" He's so cute" then after awhile they forget about me. Any help guys???
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Docs

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"Attraction"

Find how to use it somewhere on these boards (I know it's around here! :D)...and use it.

That's how you get from "cute", to "mouth-watering"
 

Phoenix_of_the_ashes

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Looks really mean nothing if your a guy. I actually am always the most successful with women the less I care about how I look. Bad haircut, ****ty clothing, unshaved it makes me feel like I have nothing win, I think that makes me seem cooler.
 

Cruise

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Not the looks, but the LOOK. The Strength, Power, Vigor, Virility, and Presence that attracts and holds attraction.


Time to hit the study table pimpin' !!!
 

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looks get you noticed, but thats about it. i found that when you have a mixed group of guys and girls at a party or whatever. usually you'll see girls send other girls your way and say to you, that so and so thinks your cute/good-looking and thats the cue to go up and dj it.

if it's just you and a crew of guys, good luck on any girls coming for an approach, it sucks but thats the way it works.

alot of times if you rely on your looks to lure the babes. it's usually the ones your not attracted to that make their way you. i found that when i relied on my looks at bars or gatherings and sat back and waited...i got approached by some nasty looking girls. sometimes i seen the cute ones look and look away, then repeated...thats all i needed
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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