"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Looking into eyes, collapsing into soul

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Have you ever looked into a girl's eyes while she looked into yours and then felt something that feels supernatural, that you both feel, and you feel like you look into your soul and they look into yours?

If so, have you ever had that happen with more than one person? What were the circumstances between the different people you had this happen with?

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Yes that happens with strong mutual attraction. In general, if they hold eye contact more than 70% of the time they like you a lot. Also, if their pupils get bigger and you feel a connection, you found a good one. Remember - your pupils got bigger also.
 
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Be very careful...

"If thou gaze long into an abyss, the abyss will also gaze into thee."

Nietzsche
 
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bigneil: Just to make sure we're talking about the same thing: You're talking about the point where you BOTH feel something "magical" at the same time and reach a different level of understanding, and it almost feels like the air goes whoosh (for a lack of better words?)

The reason I ask is because I had this with one girl and things didn't work out and I'm just wondering if people only have this with one person, or this level of magic clicking can happen with multiple women in one's lifetime?
 
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DanDaMan said:
bigneil: Just to make sure we're talking about the same thing: You're talking about the point where you BOTH feel something "magical" at the same time and reach a different level of understanding, and it almost feels like the air goes whoosh (for a lack of better words?)

The reason I ask is because I had this with one girl and things didn't work out and I'm just wondering if people only have this with one person, or this level of magic clicking can happen with multiple women in one's lifetime?
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For what it's worth, I just got friendzoned by the first woman I've ever dated where this happened.

There were certain situations out of both of our control, however, and I'm climbing out of the trench I dug myself. A mutual friend informed me today that I need patience, though, so I'm riding it out for a while and just casually dating until the situation resolves itself.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DanDaMan said:
bigneil: Just to make sure we're talking about the same thing: You're talking about the point where you BOTH feel something "magical" at the same time and reach a different level of understanding, and it almost feels like the air goes whoosh (for a lack of better words?)

The reason I ask is because I had this with one girl and things didn't work out and I'm just wondering if people only have this with one person, or this level of magic clicking can happen with multiple women in one's lifetime?
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It happens with lots of women. Don't worry, she's not special.
 
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AlexDP said:
It happens with lots of women. Don't worry, she's not special.
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Hallelujah, mother****er!

On to the next ***** now... :rockon:

(BTW, I wasn't really thinking of this whole concept in the magical-world sense, but more in the sense of "does something inside your psyche close up or change when you experience this with one person, that you never get to experience it with another". I guess not. Thanks!)
 
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DanDaMan said:
Hallelujah, mother****er!

On to the next ***** now... :rockon:

(BTW, I wasn't really thinking of this whole concept in the magical-world sense, but more in the sense of "does something inside your psyche close up or change when you experience this with one person, that you never get to experience it with another". I guess not. Thanks!)
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I understood what you meant. It is something special and it is a wonderful moment. But it does happen with several women in your life. Also, it ultimately means very little. Crazy women are often capable of creating these bonds and moments. It's a special moment, but it also only a moment.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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AlexDP said:
Crazy women are often capable of creating these bonds and moments.
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What do you mean by the crazy women being capable of doing this? More likely than normal women? Why? Lol. Kind of funny.
 
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Just means they're manipulative, they do it to either create a friendship bond or something more. It's not exclusive to something more intimate.
 
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**** manipulative women...

Thanks for all your help though fellas... Really helps!!!
 
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Tyson420 said:
Just means they're manipulative, they do it to either create a friendship bond or something more. It's not exclusive to something more intimate.
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Unfortunately I have to agree with this. These chicks know what they are
doing.
 
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