"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Looking funny while dancing

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Diaoz

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Hi guys, can someone give me some tips for dancing?

I don't mean ballroom dances, but more of just casual 'shaking' at bars, parties etc.

Everytime there's a dance, I'll try to move with the flow and move my body/limps etc. but I look funny and insecure.

Is it because I'm tall and skinny, thus my moves looks really limpy and scrawny (imagine a tree with long branches dancing)

I've been praticing in front of the mirror but it looks as bad each time, with my long dangly arms up in the air.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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NYC Dude

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I'm tall and skinny, and a better dancer than many people that I know. Observe the other guys around you when you're dancing, and compare. That really is the best way to learn.
 
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