"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Looking funny while dancing

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Diaoz

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Hi guys, can someone give me some tips for dancing?

I don't mean ballroom dances, but more of just casual 'shaking' at bars, parties etc.

Everytime there's a dance, I'll try to move with the flow and move my body/limps etc. but I look funny and insecure.

Is it because I'm tall and skinny, thus my moves looks really limpy and scrawny (imagine a tree with long branches dancing)

I've been praticing in front of the mirror but it looks as bad each time, with my long dangly arms up in the air.

THanks
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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NYC Dude

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I'm tall and skinny, and a better dancer than many people that I know. Observe the other guys around you when you're dancing, and compare. That really is the best way to learn.
 
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