Looking for a perspective.

[Unsolicitedadvice22]

Looking for an outsiders perspective on how to handle this.

Amazing chick, would prefer not to lose her.

Example of text conversation:

Her: Dont want to talk to you ever again. Unless you need help with anything.

I dont reply. 1 Hour later...

Her: But you can come to me and my place if you ever need anything...

etc etc etc with me not replying for a few hours. Ignoring her really seemed to bring things out of her.

Eventually I reply and she is basically saying that I broke her heart and is mad at me and doesn't see us getting back together. Saying that I never cared about her etc.

I feel like I'm going to get a lot of NEXT her and move along, but I wanted to see how any DJ minded people would try and turn things around?

 

[TheException]

Her: Dont want to talk to you ever again. Unless you need help with anything.

I feel like I'm going to get a lot of NEXT her and move along, but I wanted to see how any DJ minded people would try and turn things around?

Yes you will receive that advice....and for good reason pal. A man will always be WASTING TIME trying to go after females that are not highly interested. A woman who is highly interested in you would never tell you "I never want to talk to you again"....even if she was furious.

Forget this one, but if she texts you in the future, I would not attempt to "re hash" old problems or try to explain yourself. I would immediately try to get her out on a date and act like nothing happened. Until that point(if it ever even occurs).....grant her that wish and dont speak to her.

 

[AttackFormation]

Unless there's been some bad sh!t you've put her through to merit this, this girl is textbook BPD. Drop her or end up mindfvcked and recovering like a lot of guys on this forum.

 

[Greasy Pig]

Need more context. WTF happened?

 

[Partizan]

If a girl says "don't ever want to talk to you again" and then follows it up with "unless you need help", it means that she is very angry with you but you can still turn it around. Especially if she continues to text you. Women will say lots of **** in the heat of the moment if they're angry and it isn't necessarily to be taken seriously.

 

[VladPatton]

Don't ever try to turn it around, it'll be a huge endeavor and a huge waste of time in the end. You're better off trying to convert cheese back into milk.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

Her: But you can come to me and my place if you ever need anything...

Translation: But you can come to me and my place if you ever need sex...

She still wants you dude. End of. Just make sure she knows who's boss