looking down how can i stop?

[guayaballer]

whenever i see a girl looking at me i tilt my head down and or look away i know its submissivness and when i do it im like CRAP i did it again i look back up anad she doesnt look. so is their any way i can practice not looking down or something?

 

[Kev07]

there is no way, short of just forcing yourself to maintain eye contact. just catch yourself all the time and make yourself keep eye contact, it will come into place sooner or later

 

[noodle]

Look straight into their eyes and don't look away! and smile.

 

[musclyjerk]

Yeah, don't sleep one night - stay up, then go out the next day at lunch and walk about town.

Slight sleep deprivation causes a huge increase in confidence and makes you feel invincible - I'm sure it's a survival mechanism, but you can use it to your advantage for practice. You won't CARE what anyone thinks of you and will be able to clock eyes with everyone, male or female.

I'm totally serious by the way. If you're going to do it, drink plenty of fluid.

The Muscly Jerk

 

[gdi]

what musclyjerk said i sorta have just experinced, due to finals ive been up late now i never have problems making eye contact but definatly ive been spitting like A+ game. Im past that stage of like confidence but it might help so go with it.

 

[djweses89]

Think of it like a game man for example like i do if theres a girl walking one way in the hallway and im walking the other way ( so we are gunna pass each other ) and we catch eye contact i look at her give her a catchy smile and i keep looking until she looks down and when she does im like YES i won and if she never breaks the eye contact when she is right at you and you pass her give her a simple "hey" works wonders.

 

[GaryUranga]

man I effin hate this, I practised and got good at it, then suddenly when I saw this girl I like I looked away ****ing thing , just practise, its easy when youre not hinking anything

 

[WC2]

Being able to maintain eye contact is more mental than physical. When you grow confident enough, you're going to want to stare every woman down that you see, trust me.

Sleep deprivation is probably the most unhealthy way to practice, although it does put you in survival mode in which you feel like you'll rape anything you see

Build your confidence up, or simply tell yourself that you don't give a sh!t and you can stare any woman down that you'd like. Don't be scared, you'll be reaping the benefits thereafter.

 

[bigw]

If you read the DJ Bible, it tells you that you're the prize, not them. If anything they should be looking away from you

 

[bigw]

Yep that's right. It's a big self-esteem boost when they smile and look down all embarassed