Lately something weird is happening and I don't really know what's going on but it seems like since I started buying new clothes, have a new haircut and being more confidence. You would think girls would be more receptive right? that's not the case though, I went to salsa class and approuch a few younger girls but non of em would look at me in the eyes, some would even avoid dancing with me altogether. This one girl was giving excuse why she wouldn't dance with me then totally ignore me so I walked away like an idiot, she seems to hate me for some reason when am being nice to her. This happen with average chicks. The older woman were more receptive, one even approach me to dance and were making eye contact. Is it possible the better looking you are the more you have to prove to average girls you're not a player?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Looking better now but girls are ignoring me.
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