"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Looking better now but girls are ignoring me.

Analytic

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Lately something weird is happening and I don't really know what's going on but it seems like since I started buying new clothes, have a new haircut and being more confidence. You would think girls would be more receptive right? that's not the case though, I went to salsa class and approuch a few younger girls but non of em would look at me in the eyes, some would even avoid dancing with me altogether. This one girl was giving excuse why she wouldn't dance with me then totally ignore me so I walked away like an idiot, she seems to hate me for some reason when am being nice to her. This happen with average chicks. The older woman were more receptive, one even approach me to dance and were making eye contact. Is it possible the better looking you are the more you have to prove to average girls you're not a player?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DonJuan11

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Analytic said:
The older woman were more receptive, one even approach me to dance and were making eye contact.

How old is "older"?
 

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I think that the better looking that you are, the more you have to convince a woman that you really do like her and aren’t just taking advantage of her.

Seeing that you are 26 I should point something out. There is this phenomenon where some women in their mid to late 20’s develop this seeming dislike for guys their own age, thinking that they are too immature, preferring slightly older guys. It has more to do with women wanting to be more mature than anything the guys are doing.
 
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