Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Looking better now but girls are ignoring me.

Analytic

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Lately something weird is happening and I don't really know what's going on but it seems like since I started buying new clothes, have a new haircut and being more confidence. You would think girls would be more receptive right? that's not the case though, I went to salsa class and approuch a few younger girls but non of em would look at me in the eyes, some would even avoid dancing with me altogether. This one girl was giving excuse why she wouldn't dance with me then totally ignore me so I walked away like an idiot, she seems to hate me for some reason when am being nice to her. This happen with average chicks. The older woman were more receptive, one even approach me to dance and were making eye contact. Is it possible the better looking you are the more you have to prove to average girls you're not a player?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DonJuan11

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Analytic said:
The older woman were more receptive, one even approach me to dance and were making eye contact.

How old is "older"?
 

potato

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I think that the better looking that you are, the more you have to convince a woman that you really do like her and aren’t just taking advantage of her.

Seeing that you are 26 I should point something out. There is this phenomenon where some women in their mid to late 20’s develop this seeming dislike for guys their own age, thinking that they are too immature, preferring slightly older guys. It has more to do with women wanting to be more mature than anything the guys are doing.
 
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