"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Looking All American Abercrombie Fitch vs looking Exotic

Which look is more preferred in the US by women?

  • The All American look

    Votes: 2 25.0%
  • The Exotic look

    Votes: 2 25.0%
  • Hard to determine, both looks are in demand

    Votes: 4 50.0%

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People tell me that I look like Will Demps (football player) and I have the exotic looks going for me. Growing up I played football and was athletic, am about 6"3, and I take care of my body. One of best friends is a blonde haired and blue eyed guy who is 6"2 and fairly ripped. Both of us have had decent success with women but here is the catch.

I have been with more girls than him since I am more aggressive but he gets talked more about when it comes to being good looking.

Do you think that in the US the guys with All American looks have an advantage with girls over guys with exotic looks?

All American = Leonardo DiCaprio, Brad Pitt, Channing Tatum, etc.

Exotic = Cristiano Ronaldo, Johnny Depp, John Stamos, etc.

I have permission from my friend and I will post pictures of both of us when I get the chance.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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foreverAFC

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i think most american females are looking for a guy that looks like tom brady or tim tebow, they definitely like the all american look most
 

Peaks&Valleys

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It doesn't matter what you look like.

All girls want is for a guy to come over to them, slap em in the face and say: "call me daddy you little b1tch"

Boom. That's all it takes.
 

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lolwut. it's all personal preference to the girls

hugh heffner gets mad *****es
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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We aren't talking looks as in getting laid because ugly guys can do that, we are talking looks as in having women want to chase after you for your looks alone.
 

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The IRT flags are definitely going up on this one.
 

foreverAFC

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Zarky said:
Because all American women want exactly the same thing :up:

the hot ones do
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It all depends on the girl, some like a corvette some like a Porsche some like something else. You ask any American guy what he likes he will say any girl that is willing to go to bed with him and gives him a chevy truck Boner!!
 
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confuscioused said:
It all depends on the girl, some like a corvette some like a Porsche some like something else. You ask any American guy what he likes he will say any girl that is willing to go to bed with him and gives him a chevy truck Boner!!
ya but unfortunately girls are different than guys and buy more into the media hype and stereotypes
 
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