"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Looking All American Abercrombie Fitch vs looking Exotic

Which look is more preferred in the US by women?

  • The All American look

    Votes: 2 25.0%
  • The Exotic look

    Votes: 2 25.0%
  • Hard to determine, both looks are in demand

    Votes: 4 50.0%

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People tell me that I look like Will Demps (football player) and I have the exotic looks going for me. Growing up I played football and was athletic, am about 6"3, and I take care of my body. One of best friends is a blonde haired and blue eyed guy who is 6"2 and fairly ripped. Both of us have had decent success with women but here is the catch.

I have been with more girls than him since I am more aggressive but he gets talked more about when it comes to being good looking.

Do you think that in the US the guys with All American looks have an advantage with girls over guys with exotic looks?

All American = Leonardo DiCaprio, Brad Pitt, Channing Tatum, etc.

Exotic = Cristiano Ronaldo, Johnny Depp, John Stamos, etc.

I have permission from my friend and I will post pictures of both of us when I get the chance.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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i think most american females are looking for a guy that looks like tom brady or tim tebow, they definitely like the all american look most
 

Peaks&Valleys

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It doesn't matter what you look like.

All girls want is for a guy to come over to them, slap em in the face and say: "call me daddy you little b1tch"

Boom. That's all it takes.
 

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lolwut. it's all personal preference to the girls

hugh heffner gets mad *****es
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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We aren't talking looks as in getting laid because ugly guys can do that, we are talking looks as in having women want to chase after you for your looks alone.
 

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The IRT flags are definitely going up on this one.
 

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Zarky said:
Because all American women want exactly the same thing :up:

the hot ones do
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It all depends on the girl, some like a corvette some like a Porsche some like something else. You ask any American guy what he likes he will say any girl that is willing to go to bed with him and gives him a chevy truck Boner!!
 
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confuscioused said:
It all depends on the girl, some like a corvette some like a Porsche some like something else. You ask any American guy what he likes he will say any girl that is willing to go to bed with him and gives him a chevy truck Boner!!
ya but unfortunately girls are different than guys and buy more into the media hype and stereotypes
 
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