"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Look beyond the surface!!!

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Well, I have not yet got a girl friend but that is my new years resolution and it is also in my prayers. NowI have been seeing something odd. I heard to look beyond the surface of all things becuase things will appear in the oddest forms as a sign to learn from. I first noticed this in a pop-up. This pop-up helped me. The other day fate caused a prep from school, who I hardly talk to, to walk into were I work and have to wait. Since this happened we had a long convo and I got to meet somebody new. Then I was skating Friday and I am hitting on this girl sitting a couple of tables away when she calls my friend 1 over and told him to tell friend 2 to stop looking at her. I later asked him who she was and she turns out to be the best friend of my neighbor, who I am also friends with. So now I must work with fate to get to know this girl. That was a little off subject but I wanted to give you some background information about my experiences. Now back to were I was coming from, look at everything you see in detail. Look beyond the normal, try to make everything fit into your life. You are living a puzzle, look for every piece as it comes together. Sorry about this but I think it is something everyone needs to know.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You wanna try to type that again so i can understand your point?? Im pretty sure im NOT a retard, but i dunno what youre trying to say.
 

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Now back to were I was coming from, look at everything you see in detail. Look beyond the normal, try to make everything fit into your life. You are living a puzzle, look for every piece as it comes together.

This is the just of it.
 

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Atleast i see someone got it. He looked beyond the main detail and found the point right in front of his face. It was hidden with useless information were you must look beyond the junk to find it. Good Job!!
 

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
You wanna try to type that again so i can understand your point?? Im pretty sure im NOT a retard, but i dunno what youre trying to say.
Are all your posts this negative?

Seems like you spend more time insulting people then helping them.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Crux
Are all your posts this negative?

Seems like you spend more time insulting people then helping them.
It seems like it huh? Not all of them, including the one you are commenting about. I didnt know what he was talking about. I just dont have patience for newbs abd their nooby questions. i may bash on people a lot but there IS advice in there. I dont say it in a nice way cause im a mean dirty ol bastard...haha jk. I do know what im talking about but yea, im trying to be a little easier on these kids.
 
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