Well, I have not yet got a girl friend but that is my new years resolution and it is also in my prayers. NowI have been seeing something odd. I heard to look beyond the surface of all things becuase things will appear in the oddest forms as a sign to learn from. I first noticed this in a pop-up. This pop-up helped me. The other day fate caused a prep from school, who I hardly talk to, to walk into were I work and have to wait. Since this happened we had a long convo and I got to meet somebody new. Then I was skating Friday and I am hitting on this girl sitting a couple of tables away when she calls my friend 1 over and told him to tell friend 2 to stop looking at her. I later asked him who she was and she turns out to be the best friend of my neighbor, who I am also friends with. So now I must work with fate to get to know this girl. That was a little off subject but I wanted to give you some background information about my experiences. Now back to were I was coming from, look at everything you see in detail. Look beyond the normal, try to make everything fit into your life. You are living a puzzle, look for every piece as it comes together. Sorry about this but I think it is something everyone needs to know.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Look beyond the surface!!!
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
You wanna try to type that again so i can understand your point?? Im pretty sure im NOT a retard, but i dunno what youre trying to say.
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Now back to were I was coming from, look at everything you see in detail. Look beyond the normal, try to make everything fit into your life. You are living a puzzle, look for every piece as it comes together.
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Are all your posts this negative?Originally posted by oakraiderz2
You wanna try to type that again so i can understand your point?? Im pretty sure im NOT a retard, but i dunno what youre trying to say.
Seems like you spend more time insulting people then helping them.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
It seems like it huh? Not all of them, including the one you are commenting about. I didnt know what he was talking about. I just dont have patience for newbs abd their nooby questions. i may bash on people a lot but there IS advice in there. I dont say it in a nice way cause im a mean dirty ol bastard...haha jk. I do know what im talking about but yea, im trying to be a little easier on these kids.Originally posted by Crux
Are all your posts this negative?
Seems like you spend more time insulting people then helping them.