"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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thunder_god said:

It probably would work. But they may realize what your trying to do (play games) and will do the same to you.

But doing these things show you care a lot, and is a form of emotional investment.

Its better to drop off the face of the earth asap. 2 reasons.

1. your not reinforcing that you care with behavior, or focusing on her. Fake it till you make it (if you have to).

2. you can't lose if she is trying to play games and you just walk away. That will piss a girl off way more.
 

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noobolgy said:
It probably would work. But they may realize what your trying to do (play games) and will do the same to you.

But doing these things show you care a lot, and is a form of emotional investment.

Its better to drop off the face of the earth asap. 2 reasons.

1. your not reinforcing that you care with behavior, or focusing on her. Fake it till you make it (if you have to).

2. you can't lose if she is trying to play games and you just walk away. That will piss a girl off way more.
What about if you realize she is trying to make you jealous and then you go and flirt with another girl in retaliation. What do you think would happen?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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thunder_god said:
What about if you realize she is trying to make you jealous and then you go and flirt with another girl in retaliation. What do you think would happen?
Then she might get jealous, or laugh at your futile attempt. Or not care.
 
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