"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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thunder_god said:

It probably would work. But they may realize what your trying to do (play games) and will do the same to you.

But doing these things show you care a lot, and is a form of emotional investment.

Its better to drop off the face of the earth asap. 2 reasons.

1. your not reinforcing that you care with behavior, or focusing on her. Fake it till you make it (if you have to).

2. you can't lose if she is trying to play games and you just walk away. That will piss a girl off way more.
 

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noobolgy said:
It probably would work. But they may realize what your trying to do (play games) and will do the same to you.

But doing these things show you care a lot, and is a form of emotional investment.

Its better to drop off the face of the earth asap. 2 reasons.

1. your not reinforcing that you care with behavior, or focusing on her. Fake it till you make it (if you have to).

2. you can't lose if she is trying to play games and you just walk away. That will piss a girl off way more.
What about if you realize she is trying to make you jealous and then you go and flirt with another girl in retaliation. What do you think would happen?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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thunder_god said:
What about if you realize she is trying to make you jealous and then you go and flirt with another girl in retaliation. What do you think would happen?
Then she might get jealous, or laugh at your futile attempt. Or not care.
 
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